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Archived questions from: December, 2019 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

There is no physical chemistry, which makes me think he is not "My Guy"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

30 December 2019 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been dating a friend of mine who confessed that hes had feelings for me for a year now, and since I just got out of a toxic relationship he said he had to tell.me how he felt before I started dating someone else, hes a great guy, ...

My boyfriend acts single and doesn't respect me.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1593 days ago

30 December 2019 (F) - Hello My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years now. I’m having issues because his social media. He brings his exes to it a lot. Particularly one that I caught him having an emotional affair. As well as a bunch of flirting. He...

How do I stay friends when I want much more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1594 days ago

28 December 2019 (F) - I have been interested in this guy for years, we have been in almost constant contact for years, he worked away and didn’t want to be in a long distance relationship. All of our friends say they don’t understand why we aren’t together and I’m ...

I'm in a predicament. Who do I chose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1592 days ago

28 December 2019 (F) - Hello, I was dating a guy who I really loved for three years. After two years, I had to leave the city and settle in another country for work. He was not comfortable with doing a long distance but I was...so we eventually broke up. Our love b...

He's left without me, after planning to spend NYE together.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1596 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - I have been seeing someone for 3 months. We have been taking it very slowly but the past 3 weeks things have been progressing more and I have met his mother and a couple of his friends. The other day we were talking about New Year’s Eve. Original...

My boyfriend cheated, and I don't know how to rebuild the trust.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1596 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - Hello, I have been with my partner just over a year. We were work colleagues for around 6 months prior to that, and our relationship didn't start in the best way - my then boyfriend was working away and I had an affair with current boyfrien...

I struggle to trust my judgement when it comes to guys.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1596 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I’m really interested to hear what others think is a ‘normal’ amount of messages to be sending in the very early stages of dating. For context: I’ve been seeing a new guy that I met online for the past month, we’ve...

I feel a complete romantic disaster!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1596 days ago

27 December 2019 (M) - Hi all, and happy holidays! Any help or advice is much appreciated. A few years ago I liked a girl at my school (so much that it became more of an unhealthy obsession than a crush), but was never able to muster up enough courage to finally ask h...

My boyfriend is financially dependent on me, did I make the right choice?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1596 days ago

26 December 2019 (F) - Dear Everyone, I am writing this today because to be completely honest, I feel completely lost. I have been in a relationship for about 7 months. It started pretty slow, I didn't necessarily plan on being in a relationship so fast. We started ...

Is my boyfriend inconsiderate or am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1597 days ago

26 December 2019 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles and happy holidays! I have a question and trying to figure out if I’m over reacting. My boyfriend of 10 months was supposed to spend the Christmas afternoon with me, I’m 37 and he is 45. He was invited to his friend’s...

He's ready to break up with his fiancee to be with me but is it the right thing to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1598 days ago

25 December 2019 (F) - Hello agony aunts, 7 years ago I was in a relationship with this man whom I met in college. We were so in love however I had to finish my higher education outside the country for 2 years. We were trying patiently to manage the LDR but after I ...

Troubled family relationships am I in the wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1597 days ago

25 December 2019 (F) - Trying to cut a long story short as I just need an outsiders point of view. I have been with my partner for almost 14 years and throughout this time he has a lot of pressure from his parents. Not only that, they make him feel not good enough, he is ...

How can I survive my toxic relationship with my mother in law and her sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1482 days ago

24 December 2019 (F) - My boyfriend's family and this situation has got me drained mentally plus giving me severe anxiety and depression. My mother in law and her sister who I live inside the same residence with, hate me. I live on the second floor apartment. Everyone ...

My boyfriend is going away for a month, how do I get through this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1598 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - My boyfriend will be going away for a month soon. I can't go. I am worried he will cheat on me. I fear I will not be able to cope with the constant anxiety and stress about what he is doing. Can anyone provide tips on how to stay SANE? An entire ...

Split for a month and I slept with someone else.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles I am in a real dilemma, I have been with my man over four years,we have had our ups and downs and he often goes away for a few days and ignored me. A few times we have agreed to split and the last time we did was for a month. I...

We don't have sex much anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1600 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years. And next year it is 10 years. But we don't have sex that much anymore. Is this normal in a relationship?. Or is there something wrong with me?. ...

My partner spends a lot of time partying with his friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1601 days ago

22 December 2019 (F) - So me and my partner have been together around 4 years. For the most part it’s been good. My issue is his time spent with his friends. They get together about 3 times per week. His friends are mostly single and they party. Whenever they see ...

The yelling and shouting between my boyfriend and I has gotten much worse!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1597 days ago

22 December 2019 (F) - Boyfriend and I are starting to have blow up arguments. Half of the time I can't even remember how they started. He starts to yell and scream and I have started to return the yelling and screaming, at first I use to just deal with it. Then he ...

Online dating .... men only seem to want to hook up for sex.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1601 days ago

21 December 2019 (F) - I am a woman in my late 40s nice looking, good figure, no kids, I have just started online dating and I get thousands of likes and tons of messages but never any dates! its so frustrating, the men online just seem to want sex hook ups and they ...

My partner doesn't seem to care.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1601 days ago

21 December 2019 (F) - Hi I’m in a relationship now for 6 years but I feel so lonely I went out last night and kissed some bloke in front of everyone I was really drunk I get shown no affection from my boyfriend or shown any love at all we don’t have sex and he’s Been in ...

My girlfriend keeps breaking down over stress at work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1603 days ago

20 December 2019 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I'm 24, she's 26. We were living together, but now she's working 4 hours away while I'm still studying. She's constantly stressed at work, and I feel like I'm just an outlet for her stress. Nearly ...

I'm annoyed my boyfriend will be spending my birthday with his sister instead of me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1604 days ago

18 December 2019 (F) - Hi just looking for some opinions about this it’s my birthday tomorrow and my partner is at work all day until 4.30 now his sister have just phoned him asked him to go straight to hers from work to do some jobs around the house naturally I am ...

Is it okay to remain friends with an ex when you are in a new relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1604 days ago

17 December 2019 (F) - Hello aunts Is it a good idea for a couple to stay friends with their respective ex's if the couple is newly in love with each other but still share a friendship that cannot be given up (not sexual feelings but say mutual respect and care with th...

Do I tell my boyfriend that while we were split up I slept with someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1605 days ago

16 December 2019 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend for a few weeks and in that time I slept with someone else, we have since got back together but should I tell him?...

Am I dating a manipulative guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1601 days ago

14 December 2019 (F) - I have been dating a guy for just over a month, things have been going really well between us. I have noticed this week though that he has started to interrupt me a lot. Like last night he came round after work and we sat talking for a while then ...

What's the best way to figure out what "league" I'm in, and what kind of men would be most attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1610 days ago

13 December 2019 (F) - I hate even wording a question that way and talking about leagues because it seems so juvenile, but I’m at the point (age 26) where I’m wondering what can of man I can get who will be willing to “settle down” at some point. My college was a mega ...

My date made a remark that I'm wondering if its a red flag

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1607 days ago

12 December 2019 (F) - I've been on a date with a man, he had never been on a date or a relationship before (he's 24), and we brought up a topic about exe's and cheating. I was turned off when he told me that "A man cheats because his girlfriend/wife isn't providing him ...

Do all older men think younger women are superior physically to older women .

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1612 days ago

11 December 2019 (F) - As I’ve gotten older my taste in what is attractive in men has changed and I find men my own age much more attractive than the younger men I dated in my youth . Quite a few of the men I have dated have mentioned how younger women are so good and ...

I have never been on a date or been kissed and I'm too insecure to ask someone out

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1613 days ago

8 December 2019 (M) - Im not really sure where to start this, other than I posted on here probably about 10 years ago with pretty much the same question. I am in my late twenties, and I have never been on a date, been in a relationship, never kissed anyone or had se...

I desperately need to get on birth control but I don't know where and how to get it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1610 days ago

8 December 2019 (F) - I need to get on birth control because I heard my boyfriend is trying to get me pregnant (I'm 16 a Sophomore, he's 18 a Junior). My parents make it impossible, though. There are TWO clinics in our town that gives birth control to minors without ...

Anxious about long distance military relationship & personality change

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1617 days ago

6 December 2019 (F) - My boyfriend is joining the military working in intel, and we will be doing long distance for a year before getting married. We have a lot of trust and I have confidence in our relationship. However, I'm afraid of him possibly changing due to being ...

He said he loved me, then he went to Mexico and now he barely speaks with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1618 days ago

6 December 2019 (F) - My bf and I were starting to become super close . He told me he loved me and than he went to Mexico with his parents . The first few days he msg me and sent me pictures . Now he has been gone 5 days and he barely speaks to me . This morning I told ...

My boyfriend's sister in law says they are in a "live in" arrangement.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1619 days ago

4 December 2019 (F) - I and my boyfriend were like best friends . And our relationship was at its best . He's very loving , caring and understanding. And his brother's wife keeps calling him more often , all day and night which I hate the most and I told him that I d...

I really want a baby, is this a stage I am going through?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1617 days ago

3 December 2019 (F) - I turn 18 in a couple months and have been with my boyfriend a little over 2 years. We are neighbors so we have slept with each other but I really want a baby. And I really want to be with him forever. Is this just a stage I am going through?...

I broke up with him because he put everybody else first, now I am missing him like crazy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1621 days ago

3 December 2019 (F) - I have broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and it was quite a nasty break up and a lot of shouting names and verbal abuse. Basically he started putting other people before me the past month and became unreliable and kept cancelling on me. So I ...

We both have children, he wants us to live together but his children need more help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1613 days ago

2 December 2019 (F) - I love my boyfriend of one year. He would do anything for me and appears to want this relationship more than ever. We've been spending a lot of time together over the months and hes ready to start living together. I dont think its too soon but i ...