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Big Questions: Help and advice

What is wrong with me? Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - "Op Own Title" what is wrong with me like seriously:( i need things like clothes, money, shoes, bags to make me happy:( i think is cos am single cos i never use to be like that..i use to be soo in love but now i cant find a good guy i just want ...

How to figure out the right path after separating with ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - "OP Own Title" My ex and I broke up several months ago. We were together for several years. It was an awful breakup and she was very hurt and angry. She said that she doesn’t love me anymore and now doesn’t even want to be friends. She wont speak ...

I get so jealous of my boyfriends 3 year old daughter

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I hope someone can really help me on this one cause I'm lost... I met a wonderful guy 6 months ago. He is everything i have ever wanted and more, and I know I am lucky to have him...problem is he has two children from his last relationship. Gi...

How to raise my girlfriends self-esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - "OP Own Title" My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 years and have a 2 year old son and we are both 19. I was recently kicked out of my house and I am now living with my girlfriend, her parents and our son. Ever since I have moved in, about 2 ...

Should I ask my boyfriend if he talked to his family about wanting to marry me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Hi My boyfriend is Egyptian muslim (31 years old) and I am white Christian (26 years). I am going to convert to Islam by my own choice soon. We have been together for just over a year. He is currently on a family holiday with his parents and sib...

I am friends with my ex boyfriend girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am friends with my ex boyfriend's girlfriend and we talk regularly. I have their home phone number and her cellphone number. My ex has three days off a week and I respect her that I am not to call while he is there. I have not nor d...

Help! I feel as if my husband doesn't love me enough...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I feel as if my husband doesn't love me enough. It has been a while since we have been intimate and cuddly. He never starts kissing me unless I do. He never embrace me unless I ask for it or I open my arms. I know he loves me but I don't thi...

Is it normal for someone so young?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Well, let's get right to the point. I'm 14 years old, and I really believe I'm in love. I've read things like, "how to tell you're in love!" or, "are you REALLY in love?" They of course list things like, "Do you think about him/her every waking ...

How do I learn to relax? My boyfriend says I need to relax.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Recently my bf and i had definite plans to hang out the following day. I asked if we were still on and he said he had to go look at cars etc but would call me when hes done - see how he feels/if i want to hang out (hes in the process of tryin to ...

My man makes me sick!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Is this very common, that a man in his forties becomes uninterested in sex and wife. Or does it always depends on the situation? Can a man be totally cold with his wife but get really horny in a new relationship? Is it ok, to be roommates and st...

Why did he not text me back? Was he jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Hello everyone One thing thats been on my mind since last nite I was sleeping with this guy and 4 weeks ago he called it all off, anyway we do still talk and get on ok through txt last nite when i was taking, a mate hope who lives near h...

Who is in the wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Ello! I am new here, but my question has been in my life for over a decade. See, my mom had this friend, which I will call her Kanine, and she has a son, which I will call Ahola. They have been in my life over a decade and I just can't stand them! ...

The condom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going on two years together. We've been arguing a lot lately so the past weekend I didnt hear from him nor did I see him. He keeps a condom in his wallet, its been there for months, thats our emergency condom because we have ...

Is it that I'm gay???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I’ve searched through so many sites, trying to find some help and advice so I’m hopeful that somebody can help me here? I’m in my early 20's, average looking, and have never slept with a guy. I’ve had previous boyfriends, but could never take...

How can I handle my dad being such a jerk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - hi, my parents fight a lot. My dad has a drinking problem and my mom has a crazy work schedule. When shes not home, i find myself making the meals and cleaning up after him. My dad treats us like crap. i cant remember a day without any of us ...

How can I gain closure from a love that could have been?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I need some advice on how I should go about gaining closure. I need to fully get over this guy from my past and the regret along with the "what-ifs" are driving me crazy. The thoughts of him are not a constant thing but it does happen once in a whi...

Help! How can I get him out of my heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - How can I rid myself of this feelings . My ex an I have a 3wk old baby we broke up the last months into my pregnancy due to the lack of love for me. He came back I don't even know why, he was there when the baby was born unfortunetly not how I ...

Engaged for 8 years, how do I tell him I want out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 14 years. We have been engaged for 8 years and lived together for 7 years. Over the last 6-8 months my feelings for him have changed - I no longer love him! I don't have any conversation with him and I don't want him ...

Usually friends just drift apart but these girls seem to want revenge of some sort. How do I find peace and move on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

20 July 2010 (?) - I feel stupid and way too old to be writing about this, but I need to clear my head and get some outside perspectives on this situation. I have ex-friends from childhood with whom I used to be very close with. Over time, I realized they always had ...

I want this friend of mine to make the first move what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - [Mod Note Poster the title you suggested was already taken] Hey I need some help, you see I have this friend who is a boy and I have known him since I was 4/5 and I want to move a bit further on with him, but I want him to make the first move. I am ...

Did I sound like a pervert for asking?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Hey Agony Aunts/Uncles... I feel like I've lost some innocence in myself. I was making out with my gf the other day and I started to tickle her chest. I got the signal that I was crossing the line. So I stopped and we continued to make out. A day ...

How do I get out of the hole I've dug for myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - I was depressed for a good part of the last 12 months due to a rocky relationship and another woman who tried to get me to leave with her. I made bad decisions and escalated everything. There was no affair, but I was very, very tempted and very ...

Are married women basically all disloyal, cheaters at heart, ready to do whatever it takes for male attention?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Why do so many married women cheat? I don't know if this is just a function of where I live (Southern California), but it seems like the majority of women I know well have cheated at some point on their husbands. These range from a few women who ...

Is it normal to feel this guilty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Lately, I haven't been able to get over my guilt. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. He is the most wonderful, understanding, and loving partner I could ask for, but he's so wonderful that I feel guilty for being unable to measure up. Late...

How much could looks affect you being able to get a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I dont want this to come across vain or wrong as this is not my intention nor what I am like. But I need to figure this out so I will word it the best I can. I am a successful fashion model - soceity regards me as being "attractive". I do not ...

What is true love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Dear aunt agony What IS true love? Does sex determine whether you love someone?...

Productive ways to deal with flakey people...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - This is a recurring problem in my life: flakey friends, partners, ex'es. I get really upset and angry when this happens, because of a history of friends letting me down at the worst possible time. I realise now at 25 I have to confront this an...

My ex refused to be a sperm donor for me, but then we had one last night together and it turns out I'm pregnant! I don't want him to think I tricked him, so how do I tell him about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - hey my ex-boyfriend and i were together for years and i ask him for a baby because i knew we were breaking up and that now he was more like a sperm donor i guess and he said no which was fine because at the end of the day we weren't ready or should ...

How can I tell if she loves me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Im in love with a girl sincerely.Im very sweetie. Everyone likes me not because of my beauty but my character, well-Behavior. But I dont know whether she is loving me or not.How can I confirm that she loves me? P.S. She is modesty and religiou...

He led me to believe he was someone else and now we are married he has shown his true colours, am I being too harsh or should I get a divorce?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Me and my husband chose to date for a year before getting married, and we did not live together previously. Now we all know with every relationship comes baggage, but Ive been married before, and outside of that, I was in another long 8 year ...

How can I deal with her stresses in life which mean I don't get as much attention from her as I would like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 1 year off and on. She has a 2 yr old son and is in nursing school and has two jobs. She is usually stressed out a lot and because of this she has broken up with me twice and then later wanted to get back ...

What could it be that went so wrong for her not to tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I am going to try to make this short as much as I can I’ve known this 22 year-old girl since she was 16. We’ve always been good friends and I have always had a small crush on her. 3 years ago she moved a few states away with her family, we m...

How you you like your husband to approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Tip for first experience please. I think it's nice and romantic to brush my wife's hair (on her head--for those with perverted mind!). I'm basically looking for something sweet and romantic that I can do daily when we wind down (I have the mass...

How can I get to know my father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I am 44 years old and my mother just now telling me who my father is. The only thing she knows about him is his first name and what he owned. Before i leave this earth I would love to know my father....

How do you date in this crazy world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - How do you actually date in this crazy world, when guys act so alloof and indifferent that all they want is a quick sex(my experience). I was in 7 year relationship, that ended. It was mutual, as we became so indifferent to each other that it ma...

How can I get closure over my ongoing crush? Part of me will always wonder what could have been.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

Should I write a letter to my ex's new girlfriend to let her know what a scumbag he is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I want to write a letter to my ex boyfriend's girlfriend telling her what a scumbag he is. I am really sick and tired of my ex boyfriend getting away with talking trash about me behind my back. I really think he is a psychopath, he has no consc...

My husband was having an affair with my best friend who also happens to be my co-worker, how can I maintain a professional relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I recently discovered that my husband was having an affair. We have been married for 21 years and in the course of the affair being revealed I have found a multitude of other lies. There can never be just one! The other woman just happens to have ...