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Archived questions from: 15 July, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How to be myself again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Today I did something that I didn't want to do. I broke up with my girlfriend. We aren't officially broken up though. We just got into a really bad argument and so she didn't want any major decisions being made while we are emotional. I broke up ...

My best friend's bf kissed me plus, what should I do now??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - My bestfriend and I were supposed to hangout. It was gonna be her and her boyfriend me and my friend Brent. Her boyfriend was driving us. Both Brent and my bff had to cancel to do something else so me and her bf decided to just go hang at the mall ...

He has problems, borrows my money, has fits of anger, is this worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Wondering if my boyfriend is going to be worth all the trouble he is causing. He's been in jail because his xwife lied, in court, about him sexually abusing his kids. He's had addictions up until a few years ago which have also gotten him in trouble ...

I lied about my age to my bf, should I come clean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - when me and current flame started talking, i never thought things would get as serious as they have, and i deffinitely did not think they would last past a week or two. he was 2 years older than me and very very mature so i was worried since i was ...

Why do my gf's stories change over time, is she hiding more??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - I am having issues with my GF of 10 months gradually revealing things to me that are a bit worrisome. She has gradually increased the extent of stories about her romantic and sexual past. Guys that she once said she never touched, suddenly became ...

How do I get my bf to be more protective of me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I really want my boyfriend to be protective over me.. I know it sounds stupid but I really want him to be the protective type, He doesnt really stick up for me much like when other boys try to hug me he doesnt really care too much , b...

Only been with bf six months, have clymadia, how do I tell him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - hi ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, i recently had a smear test done ive had urine tests before and nothing showed at all but now I have clymedia and i have no idea on how im going to tell this to him, i have no idea where i got it from! ...

Should I feed neighbor's baby, I am lactating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

15 July 2010 (?) - hello reaers i am lactating, so my neighbours left their baby to me to look after for 4 hours,bcos they were going for a movie, she told me to feed if needed, my neighbour knew i am producing milk, i would like to know whether i can feed my breas mi...

On again, off again bf needs time, hanging with new girl, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - okay so i met this guy almost two years ago, and we have been off and on, and im usually the one that breaks up with him, but he says he loves me and he acts like he does, but 2 weeks ago i broke up with him cause he was going to a new school, and ...

He calls me fat and a bitch, stress over money and other things, any suggestions to peace??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I am 26 years old and I have been married for 2 years now and have been together with my husband for almost 4 years now. We have had plenty of split up and make ups. I have a 6 year old son from a previous marriage and my husband and I have a 5 ...

I thought we had a deep love, now he's gone, think he'll come back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Hello Everyone, i would like to ask your opinions even though i already have my idea of this whole. A week ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months. I know it was not a long time, but we were friends, very close friends before, so we kn...

No intercourse, regular period, but could I be pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Nearly two months ago, me and this guy were fooling around...he fingered me and there was a chance he could have had sperm on his hand. So, I went to get the morning after pill within 24 hours, no problems. My period came a few days early due to it ...

How do I get my friend back after this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - So I have a female friend who I've known for 3 or 4 years and who got engaged about a year and a half ago. When I first met her I had a huge crush on her, but as she was always unavailable I pretty much accepted just being her friend simply because ...

Will he go back to this other woman???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - My husband and i met when we were 15 and 16, we had our first child than and a year later we married. through most of our marriage i seeked out attention from other men, so in turn lead my husband to not trust me. About 1 year and a half ago i le...

If he never felt that way... what difference does it make when I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Should i feel bad for this? I recently told my mate how i felt about him, id felt that way for a while and i always kinda knew he knew anyway because people had said stuff to him. I always thought he liked me to from his previous actions but turns ...

Should I feel guilty for kissing him???

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15 July 2010 (F) - I have a tall, brunette, muscular, strong, cute, sweet, nice and extremely attractive friend. he has a girlfriend but after 9 months they broke up, my friend and i began to hang out like friends but in the first date he kissed me and i kissed him ...

Once the attraction leaves...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Can you still love your partner if you're not attracted to them sexually any more?...

How will I cope???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I was in a relationship for 8 years with the father of my 2 kids. he said we must break up, cause he had a new girlfriend. We broke up 2 years back and it was hard for me. its been two years since we broke up, but i dont find a great man 4 me. i ...

My daughter's lie about her dad raping her broke up our marriage...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Please help me on this.... How can you get your family back on track when a lie so big destroyed it. It started on 7/7/09. I've been with this man since I was 18 at that time I had 2 kids and later found out I was pregnant but not from him with my ...

12 years and 4 kids.. now how did I go from the wife to the mistress?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - 12 years and 4 kids.. now how did I go from the wife to the mistress. We broke up 6 months ago due to him cheating with this 20 year female and now as we supposed to be trying to work things out he has moved her in with him. Now we took a step back ...

Should I act on these feelings I had for a man? And how would I approach him to find out if he is gay or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Hi can anyone help? I was in the showers at the gym the other day and a quite a athletic guy bit older than me came in and stood right next to me even though there were lots of other spare showers. At first I felt like my space was invaded b...

Do I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - i have boyfriend whose 14. im 13 and ive known him for maybe 3 and a half years. ive always liked him and we havnt had sex or anything. i plan to but not now. i have really strong feelings for him. hes all i think about and i want to say i love him ...

Why do nice guys end up last?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Hello ladies, I have a really deep question which I'm having trouble getting the answers. I'm currently 26, and I've had over 30 Relationships failed, I never gave up but I keep asking myself why. My friend (who is a gal) says that I'm "Too Nice", ...

After 10 years of being lonely I thought I had found the perfect man in my new husband, but now we are having so many problems I don't know what to do anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I married a male after my First hubby died. After 10 years of lonely times I found this one having all my desires, least i thought so. First he comes in, changes my home, re-decorated all to his liking. i paid for the re-decorations at my ...

How can I deal with this rejection from a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - After meticulous assessment of a girl following rejection after asking them out, what can i do to get back on my feet? I feel i've grown a little cold over years, and high school is a very discouraging environment. How do i recognize love in myself ...

My older lover is very sick, should I marry him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

15 July 2010 (?) - I'm a successful, almost 22-year-old woman. The love of my life is 61. Please, no gasping. I met him when I was a child, in passing, when he was only 46, and I a mere seven or so. He quietly watched me grow and change through my childhood. He was ...

Should I be worried, or is it just curiosity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - my eleven year old daughter was looking up quite a bit of pornography and lesbian porn on my laptop. should i be worried or is it just curiosity at eleven? when i was eleven... i was far from thinking about that. kids mature too fast. How shoul...

Tormented by girlfriend's sexual past

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - hi guys. i know this has been throughly discussed here before.. i already researched about it and read almost all of the responses to the queries. and honestly it helped a lot. i have a girlfriend now who i love very much. i really adore her and ...

After finally convincing my boyfriend to marry me, I'M now the one having second thoughts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I am a woman who likes to live life according to plans. I had my next year all planned out and my heart set on it working out as so. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years. We just graduated from college and I have one year before ...

How do I let my suitors down gently?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I have two guys in love with me, three who really like me, and five I "talk" to. I'm sleeping with ONE. No matter what I refuse to sleep around. But, here's the thing, I'm hurting the two who claim to love me. They're very nice, I consider them ...

I can't have the girl I want without feeling like a dog for leaving

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Here is a tough one for you guys. I grew up with a girl who became my foster sister when I was 15 . I have always been in love with her.I told her I loved her when we 16 then again 19 and the last time when we were 24 when she told me she didnt lo...

Any suggestions for overcoming shyness with women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - what can i do to gain confidence with girls? as summer goes on i get closer and closer to going to college. one reason im not too thrilled about this is because i have no confidence when it comes to talking to girls. im very shy around everybody, ...

I like him but I think he smokes pot

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I really like this guy but I think he smokes pot and what if I go back out with him and kiss him some day what should I do?...

Worried about germs - is this OCD?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - How can I deal with my wife's kissing. Yes I have been bothered by the fact that she has dated at least 5 guys. Thankfully she did not do the dirty deed with them. But I am somewhat of a germ-freak, and whenever I kiss her all I can think about is ...

It turns me on when he asks me and I don't know why, any clues??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Hey, well i was wondering do you guys have any clue why it turns me on when my bf tells me to do some thing? I have no clue why it does lol thanks....

After a miscarriage my girlfriend is devastated and drifting away. How do I fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year now and we just seem to be drifting apart. We found out in April that we were going to be parents and that she was nearly two months gone. We were so happy that we were going to be parents and we ...

I cheated on him, now I feel I can't trust him, why??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - why do i feel so insecure and don't trust my husband after i cheated on him and he waited for me and took me back...

He has a girlfriend and didn't want to know how I felt, why not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Should i feel bad for this? mI recently told my mate how i felt about him, id felt that way for a while and i always kinda knew he knew anyway because people had said stuff to him. I always thought he liked me to from his previous actions but turns ...

What is up with guys who chase, capture and vanish??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I'm just wondering why guys always seem to be interested in a girl when she is unsure of the whole thing but the second she gives in and begins to fall for him and lets him know that she's falling for him, they run away like little girls? This seems ...

What can I do, she was the love of my life??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - I was in a relationship for 8 years with a woman I totally adored but in the last year we grew rather distant from one-another as our jobs and various other circumstances kept us apart for long periods. We were engaged though and she has always been ...

Is she interested in me in spite of the peeing??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - So I recently went to a small party with some friends and met a girl that I liked. As the party died down and everyone went to bed I found myself in the same bed as this girl, not a big deal because nothing was happening and we just went to sleep. A ...

When she goes away, she gets strange and distant, anybody have a clue??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Hi all. I've been dating this girl for about a year now. I am 26 she's 18. She lives and goes to school in my town, but her hometown is about 40km away. Problem is this, as long as we are in the same city our relationship is doing just fine but ...

She has issues that make the relationship difficult, keep trying or move on??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend has a lot of issues that have always messed with me to a certain degree. I basically know nothing about her personal life ( we have been with each other only for about 4 months), besides the two of us. I know a friend's name, her ...