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anonymous
writes:Would you inform a co workers wife that her husband has been unfaithful to her? However, this comes from someone who has been cheated on before so there is an obvious bias. Should the wife be informed? I really don't know what to think, maybe if it was anonymous so that the specific work mate wouldn't be dragged into the drama?I don't know..What do you think?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Usually a wife has her own gut feeling if her husband is cheating. The wife may already know it and is dealing with it in her own way. You may, by telling her, force her to do something she isn't ready to do. I'm a firm believer in minding my own beeswax until asked for info or advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Not if it causes more trouble! - I would think very carefully before you go ahead!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): I would probably drop a bug in her ear so to say .Its not fair that she be kept in the dark that happens so many times .She is probably sleeping with him also so its her health as well so yeah I think I would spill the beans on the cheater no matter if it is him or her the partner needs to know ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Absolutely not! Let her find out on her own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Are you good friends or is she just like an aqaintance?
If friends, tell for sure.
If aqaintance, try to become friends and then tell her.
Hope it helps,
~Anonymous~
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