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41-50,
anonymous
writes:ok. the guy knows im very nervous with men, he has been my friend for 5 years, always been good to me, he is very sweet he seems unhappy but wont talk to me, has a girlfriend, then one day out of the blue he shows more interest and you tell him no and he keeps trying, you give in, you make a complete idiot of yourself time and time again and nerves make me go doolally tap yet he still comes back, so i figure its not sex he's after or is it, only im starting to trust him, i know how it is though, he has a girlfriend which makes it completely wrong, chances are he wont leave her, im being used for sex i think about all this, but from a man's point of view would you keep going back to a bag of nerves? thanks. x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 February 2010):
I hate to tell you this, but you're being used. If you're a bag of nerves, you're an easy target for guys like this. He's cheating on his girl with you. He didn't dump her and come to you for a relationship. Quit seeing this guy, because all he's doing is using you. Then attend to your nerves and spend time on yourself. Nervous, underconfident women are very easy targets for bad guys.
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reader, Anonny +, writes (2 February 2010):
Hi I suffer from anxiety a lot - not so much nerves - but it makes it difficult to get close to men!
Having said this - when you find a man who really likes you - you will find he will keep on coming back however you are! Sometimes inside you may feel anxious or nervous - but on the outside - you may be good at covering it up!!
This man may have a girlfriend - but for whatever reason he has turned his focus on you! - So just be yourself and be careful!
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