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writes:Here is one for the girls and the lads....If you cheated (whether you were drunk or sober, intentional or unitentional) and you got away with it. I mean either your partner didn't find out, or your partner did find out and either forgave you or didn't beleive it and ignored it.... Do you think you would carry on cheating...This question is more directed towards, if your partner refused to beleive and you could convince him / her that you hadn't cheated. Would you use it as an open opportunity to carry on cheating?
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (28 February 2017):
Sexybum is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hiya Shania... No idea if you are still on this website or not... I stumbled back on here after nearly 10 years as on of my friends was having some trouble so I directed here and got curious.. I just wanted to post to say... it did not happen immediately, only in the last year even, but I finally met the good guy :) and things are so good with him xx
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reader, shania +, writes (22 March 2006):
 You didnt go wrong anywhere.You are only guilty of one thing....and that was loving him....he didnt deserve you.Well done!...you were strong enough to walk away.Fellas like that cannot help themselves....you are better off without him.
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (22 March 2006):
Sexybum is verified as being by the original poster of the questionP.S he is an ex boyfriend now, I'm just wanna figure where I went wrong. I think I gave him my trust and he abused it, any feedback is appreciated........
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (21 March 2006):
Sexybum is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey Shania thanks for your insight, but I'm posting this question because this is what he has done to me. I have never cheated on him, like you said my consience wouldn't let me, plus I have respect! However I think he knew he could get away with cheating on me so he carried on doing it many many times. I just want to find out if other people think like this or not!........
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reader, shania +, writes (21 March 2006):
You are going to get different answers to this because some people would still cheat if they could get away with it....while others would feel very guilty and probably just do it the once...or not at all.If you wanted to cheat on your partner then you would have to ask yourself on why you wanted to do that? I might be wrong but i think men in general view sex very differently to women as in they could cheat and get away with it and keep doing it,while women on the other hand get more emotionally attached so therefore would find it an ordeal to keep cheating on their spouse without feeling guilty.So in a nutshell...if you convinced your boyfriend that you didnt cheat on him(but you did really) and you want to know whether you could get away with it again? ....then my answer would be no,because your fella will be on the ball everytime you go out and he would be more suspicious then ever before.Just a thought though......while you may want to cheat again,you have got to ask yourself....do i love my boyfriend still? and if you dont...then finish with him,otherwise,why are you going behind his back if you dont really want him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2006): I think that this relationship isn't right, if you really loved him, you would find it hard to cheat, and not feel guilty about it, but on the other hand you should go for it, have a bit of fun while you can, you only live once, but they always find out in the end. good luck
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