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writes:my ex and i are still good friends our relationship died but not our friendship. we are always there to talk stuff over and that i want a baby and i asked my ex for the following reasonsi no he has no std's i no he would respect me and my wishes i no i won't feel guilty about it i no he won't tell anyone that he is the father i no who the father is and what kind of person he is like i dont want to go to a sperm bank.to be honest he is just a sperm donor noting else noting more and i dont think we get back together if we have a baby i wouldn want thathe is considering it he dosn't mind that he as to sleep with me is it wrong of me to ask him to do thisam i been selfish would you say yes if you were asked?
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reader, fluffypuppy  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 Personally, I don't think you should.
It looks like you're just using this guy because you can't be bothered looking for someone else.
"he is considering it he dosn't mind that he as to sleep with me"
Sounds kinda like he sees it as more of a chore seeing as he "doesn't mind"
I really don't think this would be a good idea, I think you should wait and find someone else who will be there for you and the baby, not just get you pregnant and disappear.
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reader, rivi  +, writes (13 June 2010):
You are contemplating bringing a baby into the world without its having a committed father to help love it and bring it up.
Why ? Why not just wait till you meet a man who also wants to be a dad and have a kid with him ?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 June 2010):
I think you're treading down a rocky path to be honest. This could go wrong. You don't want to end up with a custody battle, or your child becoming confused should something go wrong. Better to have a child in a relationship, I think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): well think of it like this imagine you have no history and he is just a guy friend, what happens if he goes thro with it, who takes care of you, wat happens if he accidently meets you and the baby. I think if he does say yes then ur friendship us over.
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