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Worried he may have taken my answer as an inexorable NO! I'm willing to compromise, but how to do it without leading him on too far?

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Question - (28 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i'm not very experienced when it comes to boys, i told my boyfriend that i'm not ready for sex and he respects that. But by saying this, i think he may of taken it as though i don't want to do anything at all, which i do. i'm off back to his this friday night, any tips/advice on anyhting i could do without leading him too far?[i know what lads can be like]

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A male reader, zgeek United States +, writes (29 April 2008):

zgeek agony aunthm. since you already told him this that you are not ready for sex he should respect that. but he shouldn't take it an a big "NO".

But if you wanna do something with him without leading him on. Just play around. Dose he know any of your "turn on" spots?

try what "emilyanswers" suggested.

"Next time you are alone and you are kissing simply put his hands n your bum or on your chest. You can always move it again if it wanders anywhere too far."

best luck :)

zgeek

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

You are in control of this, and he will be respectful of that if he cares about you.

Next time you are alone and you are kissing simply put his hands n your bum or on your chest. You can always move it again if it wanders anywhere too far.

Good Luck!! xx

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