A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I think i am bisexual or i could even be a lesbian. I do think i lean more to be bisexual as i do like men but as time has gone on ive been getting more and more put off them. The only problem is, i don't want to be bisexual or lesbian, for many reasons. I am not homophobic in anyway, i think its great how brave people of a different sexuality are to admit it to the world and be proud of it, but i just want to like men. I can't really picture myself in a world where i grow older and i'm married or in love with a women, it all seems so wierd. Ive never been like this before ive always grew up attracted to men and the idea of going out with a women has never aappealed to me it was only about 6 months ago all these thoughts came to me and now as time goes on i like girls more and more. If anyone has had similar feelings please tell me or tell me how i can get rid of them thankyou.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (31 October 2011):
 i wouldn't fret about it.
I am a bisexual woman but I prefer men to women. I'm comfortable being sexual with women but can't see building my life with a lesbian partner so I've limited my girl on girl contact to just fun and games with other women who feel the same way.
at your age you still don't know what you want and that's ok... just go with the flow and let it all play out as you get older and mature....
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2011): Well, for one thing, if you can't picture yourself with another woman, then you are not bisexual or a lesbian. secondly, you are still young, so I wouldn't be quick to label yourself these names just yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2011): One word... Puberty.
You have so many hormones swimming through your body right now, it's highly doubtful you can really make an informed decision about this at all given your judgement is clouded.
Just wait until the hormones are in control again before you do anything.
Flynn 24
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