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male
age
41-50,
*r toyboy
writes:I have been dating my girl for 3 months now. I love her so much and she loves me too.Am a post graduate student trying to put my life in the right path, by concetrating on my education while working part time.I am still living with my Parents. She on the other hand is working, stays on her own but goes to different clubs almost every second weekends.I am not comfortable with this as she could be meeting different men while out there till 3am and getting drunk.Although i do trust her but i dont want her putiing herself in a position where she will be fending off men every other weekendI have told her several times and am beginning to think of breaking up with her because of this.Am i being unreasonable here?Please i need help.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 February 2010):
 Well! I think you are both incompatible. The chasm is too wide to bridge.
If she really loves you ,she should not be going to those clubs with other strange men. Too many vultures there and someday it is bound to happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): I think it might be best if you did break up. I applaud you for what your are doing with your life, but you can't expect to control what she does just because you are not involved. Do you have any reason to distrust her? Or do you just not like the idea of what she is doing. I think you are being unreasonable personally; you are not married so she can do what she wants.
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