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writes:Nobody knows im bisexual and im attracted to my best friend. I don't know what to do while nobody knows im bi and my friend is completely straight,for what he has told me. I dont like holding secrets from my friends, especially my best friend. I want to let him know, but im afraid it will ruin our friendship. Please help...
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reader, Jeff8  +, writes (23 June 2010):
Why insist on labelling yourself? What is your reason exactly?To get him in the sack without being called queer? If you feel the need to tell him, then tell him. Not with words but with actions. Convince him to go out together, then pick up a girl and have a threeway. If as you say you're bi then you'll have a great time one way or another, right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): I see nothing at all wrong with telling this person that you are bi, it would be great to do that :) However, I would think very carefully before telling them that you are attracted to them. Your friendship will be put at risk. If they don't return the feeling to you, then the friendship could be changed considerably. I've been there and it did ruin the friendship I had with my best friend..though things are a lot better now. However, at the same time, others have told their friend and it's worked out fine. There's no easy answer. Just do what you think is right in your heart. Good luck, hope it works out for you.
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