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How do I deal with unintentional biting during orgasm?

Q.   I hope someone would share his experience and give me an advice how to deal with my little problem. My girl is blessed with very strong orgasms, but when it happens, she often unintentionally scratches and bites me. We solved half of this problem....

A.   27 July 2010: Your ladyfriend is living her own private Idaho movie and you're the popcorn. Tell her straight you are not into laceration and if she doesnt heel try toys. l'd opt for boxing gloves and a muzzle. Hannibal Lector style.... and maybe a nice ... (read in full...)

How do I find out if she's only after sex?

Q.   I have been seeing someone for a brief period of time. I am really into this woman but,unfortunately it would appear that she only wants sex. Or at least that is the only conclusion that I can come up with. While I am not against this, I am also not ...

A.   23 July 2010: Ps: if you see having sex as 'just wasting my time' then how will you ever get into a relationship. For better or worse this is not 1830: women listen to their bodies just like us. She clearly sees sex as one of the ways of getting to know someone ... (read in full...)

Can we fix this or is it unfixable?

Q.   Ok friends, I need some more help here. My bf and I have been dating for 10 months now, known each other for 8 years and dated in the past for a year. I was afraid to let him abck into my life when he came knocking because I was left brokenhearted ...

A.   16 July 2010: Something has to give and neither of you sound very ready to. You are both old enough to know what your priorities are in life and, assuming there isnt another woman involved, then his are work and a major amount of independence and yours are  full ... (read in full...)

How far can Christians go sexually without violating our faith?

Q.   I'm 17 years old and have been with my bf 6 months. I am a Christian and am unsure how far sexually it is ok to go. He has fingered me and I've given him a handjob but have began to think this is wrong and so my question is, how far, as a Christian, ...

A.   9 July 2010:  How far can you go? Well I'd say all the way to hell at the rate you are going now.  The Bible says that the thought of fornication alone is already a sin and I don't think you two bunnies had Ezekiel on your minds when you let your fingers do ... (read in full...)

Could a straight guy fall in love with a gay guy ?

Q.   Is it possible for a straight guy to fall in love with a gay guy I,m 41, he,s 25 I,m gay he,s straight we get along really well buy he,s very anti-gay I think he suspects that I,m gay but doesn,t seem to bother him Should I let him make the first m...

A.   7 July 2010: If he only suspects you're gay that means either you are more or less in the closet yourself or he only knows a small part of who you really are. Either way there is so little  honesty here that I dont see much hope for a really satisfying situation ... (read in full...)

My wife was a teenage slut - accepting her promiscuous past

Q.   I just wanted to post this due to all the posts re girls with promiscuous pasts. Here is my story. I fell head over heels for my now wife when she was 22 and I 23. Our relationship progressed and soon we both realized we were utterly in love ...

A.   6 July 2010: What you describe is disconcerting and rare in straight couples but I'd say pretty well the norm for gay couples who settle down together in a steady relationship. An attractive young gay man living within an hour's drive of a biggish city or inte... (read in full...)

I want to be a part of my child's life!

Q.   Ok, I am going to be completely honest here. I was dating this girl for about 5 months but have known her for almost 8 years and she is now 11 weeks pregnant and we are no longer together. Before we broke up, she moved to west virginia to help out ...

A.   1 July 2010: If you were so concerned about your chlld having a good life why in god's name did you decide to have it with that kind of woman? And please dont tell me you were thinking about what colour to paint the nurseryt you two 'conceived'! I wouldn't ... (read in full...)

Confused about my sexuality!

Q.   Hey everyone, I am a 19 year old male and have got all sorts going on in my head sexually, am I gay, bi, straight or what? I know people shouldn't label and I agree, and I agree that sexuality may be like on a scale type thing, I just want to see ...

A.   1 July 2010: It's a little like sushi--can't really say whether you like it till you've tried it. At your age, considering all the hormones boiling inside, real sex with a real person will definitely be pretty amazing. Try it and see. I'd say try it with a ... (read in full...)

I was asked when my baby is due and I'm not pregnant! I'm so upset!

Q.   Ok so i,ve started this course in hairdressing and I,m Fat and I dont know about any of you but everytime i seen a hair dresser she wasn't fat. I spoke to my friends about this and they said I Looked fine and i should'nt be so panicy. So I listened ...

A.   26 June 2010: I lost 35 pounds and if I can do it so can you. Six days a week vow to eliminate carbs, cookies, cake, coke, pizza and alcohol completely. When you crave somethng sweet treat yourself to a little spoonful of honey. Keep a bottle of vanilla extract ... (read in full...)

How do I get back that sexual attraction I first felt for him?

Q.   My partner and I have been together for 10 years. I seem to have lost my sexual attraction for him. I just cant seem to get it back. I dont know what to do. How do I get that feeling back?...

A.   24 June 2010: Ten years is a pretty good run. Sooner or later your sexual attraction has to end. Accept the fact that the best sex the two of you will ever have together was several years ago no matter how hard you try.Get ready for it now. Think about what holds ... (read in full...)

Help! I'm attracted to men!

Q.   im 24 and last year i started to have feelings for men its been over a year now and i have done nothing about it cuz i dont know what to do plus what makes it worse i think is the fact that i have never had sex with anyone. can anyone help me...

A.   23 June 2010: Please don't wait till you're 25 to find out what team you're playing with. You've already wasted years.. Stop worrying and just get yourself laid. Now. Man. Woman. Anybody. And please don't give me that line about not knowimg what turns you on. ... (read in full...)

Will telling him I am bisexual ruin our friendship?

Q.   Nobody knows im bisexual and im attracted to my best friend. I don't know what to do while nobody knows im bi and my friend is completely straight,for what he has told me. I dont like holding secrets from my friends, especially my best friend. I ...

A.   23 June 2010: Why insist on labelling yourself? What is your reason exactly?To get him in the sack without being called queer? If you feel the need to tell him, then tell him. Not with words but with actions. Convince him to go out together, then pick up a girl ... (read in full...)

Am I gay or is this a fetish?

Q.   i am a young lad an iv always believed i am straight ive slept with quite a few girls an never really questioned my sexuality until the last year or so. it started when i was told by a friend about his girlfriend slipping a finger up his bu...

A.   23 June 2010: " i like anal stimulation and it could be awkward getting a girl to do it"--keep it up and I'm pretty sure you'll discover a whole bunch of other fun stuff that is even more awkward getting a girl to do! There are lots of guys out there who would be ... (read in full...)

How should I ask boys out?

Q.   I don't get it ?! Girls are not suppose ask a dude out but if it gets mii a date then I will but HOW?...

A.   21 June 2010: Keep things cool by making the first 'date' an invite to join a group activity involving something you think he'd enjoy (and that you enjoy as well). 'Some friends of mine are going bowling/clubbing/to a concert this Friday. Would you like to join ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend gay???

Q.   Is my boyfriend gay? I have questioned my boyfriend's sexuality a bit in our relationship. He is not exactly metrosexual, but he has some interesting tendancies. He is always concerned about his appearance, although he doesn't know the difference ...

A.   21 June 2010: You may be seeing things more clearly than he is: it can be pretty dark way back in the closet. Lots of gay men have their first sexual experiences with women and figure that's what sex is all about. When you're a young guy you are in a constant ... (read in full...)

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