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16-17,
*ndrew loves hali
writes:hi well my ex that i loved with everything i had (but i dont anymore only a lil) and i broke up um about a week or two ago and she told me to stop textin her so i did and we havent talked for like a week. the last time we broke up she told me the same thing and i did as she wished and then i texted her and told her i loved her and she said she loved me too and said she wants to be with me again. i took her back of course even after she cheated on me and lied to me about so many things. will that happen this time to where she'll wanna go back out? she seemed pretty serious cause she said were done for good and that she doesnt love anymore. and if she does do the same thing should i take her back? i messed up a lot and hurt her so much and shes always forgiven me and taken me back. help. i think i love her and i know im so young but ive went out with alot of ppl and shes the only one i feel this way about. i need help.
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reader, suicidegrl +, writes (29 March 2009):
 Actually this sounds like the same thing I'm going through. Except for the cheating part.
I broke up with him twice, got back once and now he doesn't talk to me since he sent me texts harrassing me, as people say.
What you should do is remain friends cause if she cheated before. She will again. And don't make it an on and off relationship. It hurts you a lot and stuff. Just find another girl. You have your whole life to love so why ruin your youth on her?
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (29 March 2009):
 It sounds as though, although she might genuinely love you or have feelings for you, you seem to be a place holder. meaning when she finds another love interest she will dump you or stop communication, so she can make herself available and so she can be with him. But of course, when it doesn't work out with the other guy or she realizes she doesn't like him then she goes back to you... commonly knows as "jumping ships"
Im sorry to say but once a relationship has ended, then thats it... Its the end. Even if you get back together it will likely end again or be reasonably difficult to maintain over the longer term.
Your better moving on and finding somebody new.
Good luck.
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