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Will my ex husband's behavior damage my son?

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Question - (30 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello I hope you can help me with my problem.

I am divorced and live with my 3 daughters and son who is the youngest.

Last week at school there was a slight accident with my son. The headmistress had advised the other female teachers to take the signs off the toilet doors so any child that was to grow up transexual could pick one to go in that suited them.

Anyway the upshot is my son was unable to choose a toilet and wet himself infront of the class. Obviously he hasn't made his mind up yet.

Well my Ex Husband Adam got to hear about this on his weekly trip to Macdonalds with my son.

My ex husband has now attacked the headmistress, hospitalising her. In front of the whole class.

Do you think my Ex husbands behaviour will damage my son?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2008):

Wow this is a Daily Mail article waiting to happen!

I think your son is going to learn some big lessons from this but I don't think he'll be damaged by them.

Keep him up to date on when his dad's trials are, and use it to show your kids that being angry and acting out is NEVER worth it. Show them that violence may feel worth it at the time, but will never be worth the punishment you get.

You should also sell your story to the Mail and Express as they could give you a nice lump sum to look pained in your photo about how political correctness tore your family apart. The cash should then be put in a decent savings account and could very well pay for your son's university fees.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, The Gentle Man United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2008):

The Gentle Man agony auntIm not sure if this is legit as it seems a bit far fetched for a man to attack a woman in front of a class of children. But i'll answer anyway.

Yes this behaviour will damage your son. Children sense everything and every action will either help or harm a child. It will also have affected your sons relationship with his dad? (Adam ?). Clearly this Adam is a bad influence who is angry and violent. If your son spent alot of time with him and has seen this behaviour before the chances are that he will become a violent person himself.

Also Adam is likely to be spending a few years behind bars so when the time comes you will need to figure out how to explain this to your son.

The headmistress was at fault for removing the toilet signs and seems to have been motivated by personal interests. But it doesnt justify a beating.

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