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Will it always hurt if we have sex after a pause, as it's happening now?

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Question - (11 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my b/f and i havent had sex in awhile.. then today we had it again... but it hurt this time.... why and will it always after we wait a while between?

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (11 December 2007):

Sandman agony auntMaybe. It is very possible that your vajajay returned to its almost virgin-like state during the off-season. The wait between intercourse allows your vaginal muscles to contract and stay that way until a penis tries to make it's inside again, causing some discomfort. OR...

You weren't aroused/lubricated enough. Most women need some good foreplay to get them going. Foreplay gets your mind and body in the mood for sex. You may be ready, but your body may not be. Allow for your body to become fully aroused before penetration.

Hope this helps.

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