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Should I invite her to the party?

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Question - (11 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My ex split with me at the beginning of November. She wanted freedom at uni but she still cares about me. We text every now and then as friends but I really miss her and love her. I don't know how she feels.

Anyway, it's my birthday tomorrow and I'm having a house party. I'm in two minds about whether I should invite her. I'd love to see her again but I'm worried asking her will scare her away and ruin everything. But I'm also worried she'll get offended if I don't invite her. What do I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007):

What do you want to do???

It really is your choice as its your party...

But why not invite her??? You won't - or shouldn't anyway - scare her away if you are just friends now. She would be pleased to be invited to a party, everyone likes to be included!

Either way...

Have a good time at the party!! x x x

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntJust invite her your worrying over nothing she might be busy or not turn up because she might feel awkward but i garuntee if you dont ask her that will be the end of your friendship and the end of hoping whether you will get back together.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (11 December 2007):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntJust invite her.

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