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writes: I was being fingered by my bf and i felt like i had to pee the whole time will i end up peeing of will my body just have an orgasm?
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reader, Nehemie Mb  +, writes (3 July 2012):
Well, yeah...it's most likely an orgasm in its way. Now, I'm not a woman, but it's also good to have a guy's point of view and I've had a few experiments of my own.
So, the things everybody agree on ,and what you should remember, are:
1. Empty your bladder before your fun time.
2. Some women feel like peeing when they are stimulated enough on their g-spot (probably happened during the fingering).
3. If that feeling happens however, let it go...relax. 'Cause if you worry about it when it happens, you may lose your orgasm (or hardly achieve one, if ever, in the most extreme of scenarios).
4. If there's ever fluid coming out, it's most likely not urine, it's what they informally call as a "squirt".
5. If you happen to squirt, whether it's pee or not, DON'T feel embarrassed about it at all! and I'm gonna let you in on a secret here, guys LOVE that stuff, there's just something about it! Some refer to it as the 'holy grail' of intercourse with a female.
So, it's clear really that there's nothing to worry about, just have fun, and if it continues to bother you, talk about it with your boyfriend, I'm sure he'll find the right words to tell you. So yeah, that's it...enjoy yourself! Cheers!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (3 July 2012):
 Some women feel an urge to pee when they have their G spot stimulated, it's isn't urine. If you like the sensation, just be sure to go to the bathroom beforehand and put down some towels. If any fluid does come out, you don't have to worry because it's NOT urine.
If you want to have an orgasm from it, you'll almost definitely need to add in clitoral stimulation. There's really nothing to lose, just have him keep going while you touch yourself on the outside and see what happens.
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reader, Davinia  +, writes (3 July 2012):
First and foremost did you feel comfortable with what your boyfriend was doing because that is a very important question to ask. The feelings different from one woman to another when it comes to orgasm but sexual experiences become better and easier to understand with time. Make sure you are happy with the situation and go with your emotions. Talk to your boyfriend and discuss things openly.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (3 July 2012):
Hi there. To be sure, before you make love, just empty your bladder then you won't have to worry.
An orgasm can feel like you want to pee, but just to make sure, empty your bladder beforehand.
Then you will have no doubt about it at all.
You won't spring a leak and wet the bed.
Sometimes a woman can have a very wet orgasm, and you can find the sheets under your bottom will feel they are very wet, but it is just some kind of hormonal liquid - NOT urine.
So don't worry too much about it.
In any case, you will be much more comfortable with an empty bladder to start with.
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (3 July 2012):
 I think what you were feeling was that you were about to 'squirt', which is another term for female ejaculation. It isn't peeing, and many women like the sensation it creates. However, many do not. To just let it happen, you have to just relax. And maybe set down a towel haha.
It's normal, and usually a fun part of sex. Relax and good luck!
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