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Will I pee or have an orgasm?

Q.   I was being fingered by my bf and i felt like i had to pee the whole time will i end up peeing of will my body just have an orgasm?...

A.   3 July 2012: Well, yeah...it's most likely an orgasm in its way. Now, I'm not a woman, but it's also good to have a guy's point of view and I've had a few experiments of my own. So, the things everybody agree on ,and what you should remember, are: 1. Empt... (read in full...)

How to stop being lovey dovey?

Q.   Hi guys, so here's the deal: My boyfriend hates when I'm... "gay" with him. Ok first off I'm a girl, and the word "gay" is how he describes it. I tell him I love him and I hug him lots and kiss him lots and want him all to myself sometimes- I'm just ...

A.   3 July 2012: Lol, interesting! Well, people who commented before me said some really great stuff, so I'll just add a little thing in support to what they said. You love him so much uh? Lol, there's nothing wrong with you if you wanna hug him lots or kiss him... (read in full...)

Breaking up with someone who thinks everything is fine. How do I do that?

Q.   I'm onl with my guy for 3 months and I'm already considering breaking up. He does not respect me, emotionally abuses me, says hurtful things that are destructive to my self-image, controls the things I do or what I wear. But how should I break it to ...

A.   3 July 2012: Oh, I'm sorry to hear about what he puts you through. But this will be straightforward, really. You said "Breaking up with someone who thinks everything is fine. How do I do that?" But from the description of the relationship you have with him, to ... (read in full...)

Do I tell crush how I feel? I think he's attached, but he's moving away!

Q.   Hello everyone, I could really do with some advice. I've been dreaming about a particular guy for almost two years now but have never told him how I feel. We're both doctors and he's about to move to a new area and it's killing me. Let's call him ...

A.   3 July 2012: Well, I can only imagine how awkward that must be for you to be in that position. I think this should be pretty straight forward. But the course of action will depend of what kind of chemistry you guys have. Do you have just professional chemistr... (read in full...)

Weird feeling when I see my boyfriend after dirty talk

Q.   me and my boyfriend are open about talking bout sex but when we talks dirty to me and i talk dirty back i feel very weird when i see him the next day. we text back and forth sexy stuff. i think its hot but im so scared to face him the next day. lik...

A.   2 July 2012: Erm, fascinating! Really! May I ask, is there any reason why you feel shy? Yes, society dictates that all sexual matters should be considered as taboo. Maybe that's what's happening here! But is there any particular reason why you would feel uneasy ... (read in full...)

After 2 years of dating my b/f decides to move closer to his kids/ex wife. I'm devastated

Q.   I was single and not dating for 3 years after the breakup of a 6 year relationship and I had this weird sense that I would never be with anyone again. So I tried to put myself out there a bit more with activities and so on and I didn't even meet ...

A.   1 July 2012: What you should do is take some perspective. For the first exercise, I know this is so cliche, but if you were in his position, what would you have done? Really try to make the experience realistic. How would you feel, if you were in his position? ... (read in full...)

Should I just stay friends with him?

Q.   Recently iv'e been getting closer to this guy. We're always flirting and laughing and his friends keep telling me that he likes me. I like him too and really want our friendship to develop, but he had this thing going on with my best friend about a ...

A.   1 July 2012: Yes, exactly. It always amazes me how people can so clearly enumerate the reasons why they should do or not do something, but still fail to see the right road to take. This was just a side comment that will serve to introduce my answer. Even tho... (read in full...)

What do men like to have done to them.

Q.   The new man in my life asked me what things I would like to do to him. He told me to use my imagination. The only things I have ever done before was a blowjob and lick and suck on mens balls. My exhusband would not allow me to do alot. Just the ...

A.   1 July 2012: Well, this is kinda unfair for him to ask you to come up with something 'imaginative' to please him. I mean, with all you've said what else is there to do/give? The thing is, some men have fantasies and fetishes, there are general similarities lik... (read in full...)

She said she has had 5 boyfriends, how do I tell her she is my first?

Q.   Ok here it goes. I've been writing and talking to this girl for a couple months now, and were starting to get along really well. We're both the same age, 28 and have a lot in common. It started off as just getting to know each other as friends, and ...

A.   1 July 2012: Well, this can be delicate matter, but it can be simple really. In my book virginity is not an issue, I'm sure if your girl is mature, it won't be for her either. Actually, from anecdotal data, I can tell you that it's rather a big turn on for women ... (read in full...)

Why is he being so serious about wanting to say he loves me? or is he just saying it?

Q.   This guy and I have been seeing each other for a couple of months now,and we have only just slept together for the first time, as i was pregnant ( not his) and he now wants to move in with me and my child,which he is very good with, we are both ...

A.   1 July 2012: Hi, I can imagine an array of reasons why him loving you might sound unbelievable. But referring to what you've written as a guide, I'll tell you ma'am, mister is waaayyyy head over heels for you! How do I know? Well, for one (1). If a guy wants ... (read in full...)

We've been dating 3 months and now she's pregnant. So now I feel it's all falling apart so. Will this work?

Q.   We got back from a holiday to interstate yesterday and the past few days she had been feeling sick - we put it down to something she ate or the heat but i got her a test to put my mind at rest. She did 2 in the airport in the morning and they came ...

A.   1 July 2012: My friend, you have got yourself one hell of an awesome woman!!! From what you have written, I can tell you something: I greatly admire her courage. Trust me, if she told you she can raise the kid on her own, it's pretty sure she doesn't want to ... (read in full...)

I kissed a female friend and am now questioning the future I thought I had

Q.   My bf and I have been together for 8 years. We just got engage last year; however our relationship have always been a roller coaster. We have a lot of problems; mainly trust issues. I have found condom with him on several occasions, and his ...

A.   1 July 2012: Well I can't even start to imagine how confusing and unsettling this is for you. I will not say too many things because it seems that in this kind of issues, you have to find your way for yourself. I may help to shine some light though. In my hon... (read in full...)

In my LDR we Text and I phone. But he has Never phoned me. Can we make this work? He's in the Military

Q.   Hi, Do you think that in 6 months my boyfriend has never actually rung me up? We text daily and I've called him a few times but even if he misses my calls he will text back? I've asked him and he said his just always texted and doesn't really...

A.   1 July 2012: I read your question with a smile. As I saw myself, a few years back, doing the same thing as your boyfriend. This is the most fascinating thing I've learned on this site: Women don't actually know just how NERVE WRACKING it is to interact with... (read in full...)

Should I tell this guy how I feel? He seems to like me, but I am being cautious. Should I be so cautious?

Q.   I've gotten to know this guy well over the last few months. He asked me to go to the ball with him and I said yes, but before that I asked if two people can go as friends.. (I DIDN'T like him like that back then!) and he said "Oh. Well that's even ...

A.   1 July 2012: There are only two things that could make the fact that he likes you more obvious: him getting in an aircraft and skywriting to you with flashing colors how much he likes you, and him somehow bribing god into sending one of his angels to open your ... (read in full...)

My LDR says he does not love me but has feelings for me. Is that enough and is it OK?

Q.   Hi, Do you think its OK that your LDR boyfriend whom you see every other week still doesn't love you but has feelings for you? We met online and have been dating for 6 months? I'm the longest girlfriend his ever had and his 28 years...

A.   1 July 2012: Well, it's a bit complicated with guys. We have troubles with saying the right thing, and how to proceed when it comes to expressing feelings. Even for a relatively long period of time of being in a relationship, guys' feelings take a longer time to ... (read in full...)

Did she lie, or has she cancelled previous plans?

Q.   So recently i have been dating this girl online and we have been talking for about 3 months know and we plan to meet in a couple of weeks but i soon recently asked her what she will be doing fourth of july and she said nothing probably working, but ...

A.   1 July 2012: Hi, I think there are a few issues with your approach. 1. You ASKED her what she will be doing on the 4th of july. How did you ask her? Casually? If you asked casually then the answer might also have been a casual one, without details, a vague... (read in full...)

There is nothing left between us but her abuse ....

Q.   I have been in a relationship for over twenty years and we have three children, the youngest is eight. My partner is financially dependent on me, yet she treats me appallingly. It is no exaggeration to say that everything she says to me is critical ...

A.   1 July 2012: Well, for one you should know that in every relationship everything can be fixed, you just have to go back to that place where you understood each other, you should try to remember why you spent 20 years together or even why you got involved with ... (read in full...)

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