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writes:We agreed to be casual friends without sex. one night, we were drunk, and we slept together. The sex was bad on my fault. He didn’t call after that. 5 days later, I sent him a text message asking to hang out and watch a movie. He applied that he is out of town, but he’ll be back for weekend. We didn’t go to watch movie. Since then we have been in touch. I’m not looking for anything serious. Do I look needy, if I give him a call?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 March 2012):
 To answer your question, no, because you guys are only friends.
What exactly is it you're looking for?
Your casual friends with no sex, which is extremely bizarre. However, you're worried about him contacting you and when you're going to hang out...that's girlfriend behavior. BUT, you state you don't want anything serious. See where you're really confusing?? You need to sort out what you WANT and then communicate it to him.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (23 March 2012):
 If you and he had s*x, then you need to bring that subject to the fore and come to grips with it.... You may start that conversation with a call to him....
Remember, for many/most guys, once we've bedded a girl we lose interest in her.... That may be what's behind your "friend's" behaviour.....
IF both he and you WANT to continue a "friendship" then you MUST discuss what happened and decide if it (the s*x incident) is fatal to the friendship you had... AND then you and he can decide if you are friends, partners (an "item"), FWBs or if you are FORMER friends whose friendship couldn't endure following s*x....
Good luck...
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (23 March 2012):
 Hi,
I don't think you look needy at all if you call him... I know you both are good friends, but things happened... I am sure you can continue being good friends as long as you both communicate. Maybe you both need to talk and make sure where you both stand, however the case if you enjoy spending time with him, you should call and continue so....
Good luck!
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reader, Redbaglover9  +, writes (23 March 2012):
Not at all. Life's all about taking chances. We should always make an effort from our side if you want something
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