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writes:O.k I've been seeing this guy for about 2/3 weeks now but we're not officially an item but I'm sure he's going to ask me once school is over. We've kissed and stuff but is it wrong I want to have sex so soon? We were really good friends before all this so I trust him. I'm also a virgin by the way. I just want to know if I'd be doing the right thing by going all the way. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): He must want to be with you for YOU; not for sex; get to know this guy better; you are not even an "item" yet; wait to you have a good solid relationship; don't do it to soon or to quick;WAIT; you don't want to become labelled as "easy".
Let your first time be very special;with somebody very special; let it be something you will want to remember;
Best wishes.
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reader, KiaGrace  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 Let me tell you a quick story, hun. I am fifteen years old, I had known this guy for a while, and I thought I could really trust him. I started to fall for him, so quickly. He seemed loyal and trustworthy, and I thought he would never do anything to hurt me. We rushed into sex, and he has not called me back since then. I also have to be tested for HIV, and I could be pregnant. Wheres this guy now? No where to be found. I am emotionally damaged from this.
I am not saying your guy will do the same thing. I am just saying, you haven't even been seeing him for a month, and your already talking about sex. What's the rush? At least wait until you guys make it official and date eachother for a while. Sex should be a meaningful thing, especially when your a virgin. You want it to be with someone that you love or at least care alot about. You've got all the time in the world, if you do decide to have sex, make sure it's protected.
Good luck!
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reader, lexilou +, writes (8 July 2008):
 If you trust each other and are already friends then just wait a little bit longer. You are not only giving yourself to him you are losing your virginity and if he is the right one he will wait a few more weeks or months. Dont rush it as you will always remember it x
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