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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a problem that I need some help with.I've started dating a great guy with a everything I have ever wanted in someone. However, there is just on thing, he broke up with his ex 7 months ago, and since that time he has been in close contact with him and still sleeping together, as well as running to him in the past since they broke up when he needed shelter I guess you could call it..I know that he broke up with his ex and they love each other very much, but I feel that knowing that they will be always close to each other and although his ex is a great guy I will always wonder if he will still love him or is he really over him ? Very confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2010): Im not surprised youre confused. I would be too. In some ways they havent really broken up. Your bf has tried to break up but he keeps going back because he cant let go. You offer support and patience while you wait for him to sever the ties but i dont think he will, if you make things too comfortable for him. He will have his cake and eat it. If you are the faithful type that wants commitment and an exclusive relationship, this guy is going to make you unhappy.You need to spell it out to him. Tell him what you bring to the table and what you expect from a partner. Let him know you find his relationship with his "ex" unacceptable, unfair and if hes not willing to move on from his ex then you will move on. He has to make a decision either way or you will eventually go from being confused to being very unhappy.
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