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I want to pleasure my boyfriend but I get all shy..any advice?

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Question - (8 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm in a sort of new relationship, we've been together about 2 months, and we are begining to try new things sexually (we have not actually had sex yet). I feel guilty because he is usually doing things to pleasure me, and I would like to try things to pleasure him. My problem is that I am kind of shy about touching him, asking him what he wants, being bold, etc.. any adive? I really just want to do something nice for him! :) Thank you!

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A female reader, Tashie08 United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2010):

do a google search, you'll find plenty of information about what he may or may not like, and also how to build your confidence with these! Have you any toys of your own? if so, i know this might sound a bit strange, but if you have practice on them first to give yourself a bit of a confidence boost. When you do get down to it with him, just realy push through them barriers, that's the only way that you'll get through your shyness and i'm sure he'll tell you if you should make a few adjustents. Practice makes perfect and you'll get there in no time!! Good luck and, most importantly, have fun!!!x

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