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writes:Hi my name is Alicia and i startin goin out with this guy (Trevin)last year in may.We went out for a while but things started to change after the third month. we went out on and off for 7 months.we had lotsof break ups but always got back together.In october i finally became fed up with him playin lil mind games and cheatin on me and always lie'in so i just stopped talkin to him. i never told him it was over i just stopped talking to him and answering his calls.He continued to call in nov, dec, and then in jan. feb. and march he call even though he had a new girlfriend. march 27,we got bac together but broke up again on April 28 becuz once again he started to treat me like he didnt have any respect for me and made comments about him wanting to have sex that were kind of rude.the only reason that i started to go bac out with him was because i still loved him and he said things would be betta and we'd work things out.itz been a month and a half and hes started to call me again .....i get family members to say im not home.i've asked for advice here b4 and ppl said he won't change if i take him bac. then why is he callig??? will he change if i take him bac again???? would i be weak if a gave our relationship another chance?? wut do you think is up with him?
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reader, xSarax  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Your right to not answer the phone. ignore him hes a idiot. he doesn't want a girlfriend because he doesnt know what he wants. so how will he know what you want? Lads up to the age of 25 just want to go out and have a laugh with their mates. you'll always get hurt if you have anything to do with this lad. If he keeps on ringing just tell him you want to be mates. A couple of years ago i was in the same situation as you. I live in England and we go college when we're 16. I went out with a lad who didn't treat me good and we left it just being mates. Its funny because i really liked him aswell but I've just saw him then in college and had no feelings at all for him. i moved on and so will you. Just go out with your mates and find someone else, be yourself and you'll attract someone like you. best of luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): Hi sweetheart,
If he treats you so bad and you keep taking him back, Then thats an invitation to keep treating you how he wants to.
You have done the right thing love under the circumstanses you cant be with someone you cant trust, I mean he even called you when he had another girlfriend so its not just you he keeps hurting...Sweety i dont think he will change as much as id like things to work out for you i think you would be alot better of finding yourself an honest fella, You cant really want to be with someone who cheats and lies all the time....... you are worth much more than that. YOU TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE XXXXXX
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reader, drbroz +, writes (19 June 2007):
 This guy is just plain bad news. He sounds like a bit of a stalker, too. Let his new girlfriend have him, please!
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