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41-50,
*ayeg
writes:I have been married for 5 years ,I cum on my wife face a few times only , she never said yes or no even she didn't talk about it ,I would love to cum on her face and make her swallow my load every time we have sex ,I feel it I can't help it i don't know how to do it without hurting her feeling .Also do you think it's ok for a men to ask his wife to stimulate prostate with lick,touch,ect , and some time I feel like talking dirty or being nasty does that effect our relationship Or it didn't look good ,how do they see it The thing is she didn't feel comfortable i guess I start mention things about sex so she is not helping me to get close
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reader, Hayeg +, writes (17 October 2010):
Hayeg is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the tips to jagdpanther
Bettyboup your openion is super cool you just make me think different hope things work out
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): Ask her about it. The easiest way would be to write things down and pass the note between you. Ask her what she is comfortable with and that there is no pressure to do things she doesn't like. Remember, things that you might like, she might not. So be prepared to forget those unless she does them for you as a treat.
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Anything(legal and moral) is ok in the bedroom as long as BOTH parties consent to it. If she is happy for you to come on her face or stimulate your prostate, or be tied to the bed, or dress like a chicken, or beat you with her shoelaces, then it's completly fine and ok. But you can't enact your desires unless you communicate with her about them. Does she know you enjoy anal play? Does she enjoy swallowing your load? If she is shy about the subject, you need to break her in gently to the idea of new things. Why not tell her how much you love to come on her face, because she is so beautiful and it is such a turn on, it makes you feel so loved/privilaged/sexy etc. See how she reacts to that. Ask her if SHE likes it, or in fact, ask her what SHE likes? What are her fantasies. MAybe there is something she would like to try. Perhaps you could compromise? If she doesn't really enjoy swallowing your come but doesn't mind doing it from time to time, but loves receiving massages or oral sex, you could take turns doing things for each other? One day you give her a massage and oral sex, for eg, and the next time she lets you come in her mouth.
You need to communicate to get what you want in the bedroom, and you need to think of her needs too.
Goodluck!
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