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How do I control my body around girls?

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Question - (16 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2010)
A male Brazil age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Too easily aroused because of a specific girl?

I've asked questions here a couple of times and i wanted to say that the help you give here is very aprecciated, its not easy to have direct answers face to face in the topics we discuss here, and serious , helpfull ones.

last time i've been here i asked abou relationships telling that i'm 22, a very shy guy and i never had a girlfriend or have intimacy with a women, i've overcome much of my shyness since i last posted and i've been able to make friends and talk to some girls.

there is this girl i met a couple weeks ago, and we've been texting and chatting a lot, but we still haven't went in a date, and everytime she says something more affectionate to me, i get really excited, and i'm not even thinking about sex or something remotelly close, i just like her so much, and i don't want to go out with her and have a boner because she said hello!

please, how do i control myself?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010):

thanks for you answer, I think i have a crush on her, even though i've never met her, i'm going out with her tomorrow, i just don't want to freak her out by being too "anxious"...

it's one thing to get aroused when you're in an intimate moment, or when your kissing, but when she texting me saying something nice, that's a bit too much don't you think?

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A male reader, bindassdog India +, writes (16 October 2010):

bro...

its natural to be get aroused around a specific girl coz she is sexually attractive to you...but reading your words it seems to me that you have a crush on her...you must talk to her directly..try to control your emotions in front of her and be a gentlemen...and if you have true feelings for you..everything will just go well...try your luck...

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