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Why would he want to know if I'm a virgin or not?

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Question - (14 July 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So my ex boyfriend who now has a new girlfriend asked me today if I was a virgin when I answered yes he seemed surprised which offended me... Why would he want to know if I'm a virgin or not?

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A female reader, beastingit United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2011):

beastingit agony auntmy ex asked me this not long ago! dont worry, hes just curious, wondering what he missed out on most likely :)

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (14 July 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntI guess he is just curious that is all. Don't read to much in to it. He is probably just being nosey. Nothing to worry about.

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A female reader, VSAddict United States +, writes (14 July 2011):

VSAddict agony auntMost likely to decide if he should ask you to do anything sexual...I could be wrong but either way it was none of his business because you're not together and that's a personal thing to ask.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2011):

Because he missed his chance of de-flowering you. Usually a woman never ever forgets her 'first time'or the man whom she gave her virginity too. Many men would love to have a virgin, would love to be the first! Back in 2001 a study was done here in the greater Washington DC metro region on how many female virgins there were. They interviewed and medically examined 273,000 females from ages of 11 years old to 17 years old.

According to the study, only 24,389 females still held their vaginal virginity, but only 9,416 were true virgins (no sex whatsoever of any kind). If I were you....I would hold on to your virginity and not give it to anyone until you are married. A new husband would give you the world if he married a virgin.

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A female reader, ilanah tromans United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2011):

ilanah tromans agony auntHe probably just wants to know if your a virgin because he wanted to know if you would have done anything with him when yous went out, maybe he still likes you or wants to use you to have sex with as his girlfriend isn't having sex with him or something like that, don't worry about it too much though!

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