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writes:omg i really need help here. I'm going crazy. ok i"m just gonna straightforward tell you what happened. 10 months ago i met this guy and we became good friends. After a while i realized that i sort of have feelings for him. he is 7 years older than me though. 6 months ago he asked me out and we dated. my relationship with him was super and i can honestly say that he is the first guy i ever truly loved. i lost my virginity to him although i didnt really wanted to. Every thing was fine however we had our problems too. 2 days ago when i was at his place, he accidentally read my journal; there was nothing wrong with what i had written. i had written about this guy who had a crush on me in the gym, but i also had written that i didnt show any signals of interest and my boyfriend is the only guy n my life. But suddenly he exploded like a volcano saying that i am so immature and he is tired. he got so mad and ended everything. he seriously broke up and i am sooooo shock WHY???...why would he end things over such a stupid thing
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 April 2011):
 he didn't ACCIDENTLY read your journal. HE DID IT ON PURPOSE
I also think that he may have been looking for an excuse to end it...
truth be told if he blew up and ended it in anger you are better off without him. I know you don't want to hear that and don't understand it but in the long run a man with an explosive temper becomes very wearing....
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reader, cupidus +, writes (29 April 2011):
 Whoa, that's very scary, it would actually frighten me in a physical sense. Stay away from this guy. He's more immature for his age than you are for yours. You're just fine doing your thing. PS. keep your diary private for your memories when you're a granny.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (29 April 2011):
 I don't think it's just the journal but a whole bunch of things that accumulated and gave him such a bad reaction. It's him not you. So go on with your life don't change anything about yourself. His behavior is psycho. So who's the immature one here really? You may be shocked because everything was going super for you as you thought. There are many crazy people living under the facade of normal and they are tired of it. And there is no accidentally reading your journal. If he wants a more mature woman who would not write girly things like crushes and stuff, then he should find one (good luck with that). Exploding is unnecessary.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2011): I don't know why he would've ending things if you rejected that guy in your gym class. Personally, I am kind of the jealous type so I wouldn't have been happy if some guy was flirting with my girlfriend. But I wouldn't have been mad at my gf unless she had done something to egg him on or flirt back or something of that nature.
Is it possible he read something else in your journal as well that he might have had a hard time with?
I suggest that you keep from talking about this on the phone or through any kind of messaging. Save important topics like this for in person. Try to keep the mood light and open and don't let your tempers or your voices rise.
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