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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My problem is that I went out with this guy when I was younger (6 years ago) and now we are chatting and flirting again, He approached me a couple of weeks ago by asking me about a cutesy nickname he had for me when we dated before and spoke about different things we had done together. He remembered my birthday, calls me babe and he arranges to meet (general, not specific) but I saw him when I went out with friends, he chatted to one of my friends and they both teased me (good natured), although he did seem distracted. We went separate ways . . . He didn't say hello to me that night when all of us met up again, he was actually a lot more quiet than normal when both sets of friends were there, but he checked on me a few times during the night and asked me how I was etc. . When we talk he is sweet, looks at me and appears to be listening and all of his texts have kisses, but I don’t know if they mean anything. Also he is on holiday right now but we had a brief chat a couple of days ago and he seemed aloof, still polite but not as interested, if that makes sense? I guess I'm asking, does he like me or should I give up? Because I am confused as to why he approached me how he did if all he wanted was a friendship, why bring up happy past memories of when we were together, for no reason?I'm so confused!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (29 December 2012):
 It gives him a sense of pride that he still kept your attention and you still think of him fondly. If he occupies space in your mind, that still counts as something. Don't be his space filler. Should you give up? There is really nothing to give up because he gave you nothing. You are single and free. He shouldn't be in your way at all. Remember a guy is nothing until he officially asks you out to be together. Sweet gestures and flirting means nothing if he's doing it just for the heck of it.
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