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Why wont they be my friend?

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Question - (17 March 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, *HISPERSOFMYSTERY writes:

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Okay I have to ask,why is it everytime I try to be friends with guys they always try to want to be with me?,and me and my friend thats a girl have the same guy friends but there all nice to her and dont try to hit on her and really just try to be a good frinds,I want to have that but they just keep hiting on me and info I never flirt! and I dress conservative,im nice and im a cool person, somtimes they stop talking cuz im not that type of girl yet my frind they jump for her and are nice to be a genuine friend,I just want a good guy friend but I dont get it lol

Okay at class were all friends and cool with eachother in a way,well thers this guy who said hes gay to everyone when 1 of the girls ask him a question,and Im kinda confused because he is constantly looking at me and only me and for some reason I get the vibe he likes me because the way he stares at me like hes checking me out,and he seems fond of me,ill walk pass him and hel say my name "star star star",what do you think? lol he is cute tho but i dont ever flirt and im a good girl ha

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2012):

It sounds like you and me have the same curse. We are naturally flirtatious. Every time I'm talking to a guy on a friend basis, all of my girlfriends say that i was "sooooo flirting" when honestly I don't mean to! To find out if you have the same problem, ask yourself some questions.

1. Do you tend to "laugh at everything", meaning you laugh alot and the things you laugh at might not be funny to everyone else?

2. Do you make a lot of eye contact when having a conversation?

3. Are you "touchy-feely", meaning during a conversation you put your hand on the person your talking to's shoulder, or maybe playfully hit them?

4. Do you tease the people your talking to playfully?

If you amswered yes to two or more of these questions, you are naturally flirtatious. Its not anything bad, just be careful when having a conversation.

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