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anonymous
writes: me and my bf have been going out for four years now and in the begining the sex was great but now he wont go down on me he hasnt in two years i have talked to him about it but he just gets mad so i wanted to know why he dont do it anymore? Reply to this Question
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reader, scared16 +, writes (19 December 2006):
 my guess is he is too compfrotable in the relationship and is starting to ket himself go a bit. you need to sbhoe him that he needs to be just as intimate as he was at the start of the relationship x x x
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (15 December 2006):
 You both need to discuss this. You may find that he thinks he may not get as oral sex as he did before. Either way, you both need to work at keeping each other happy.
Some men do stop even if you keep it clean and tidy, perhaps take it for granted as you have been together for long time, but it goes both ways.
Try to let him know how much pleasure he gives you with oral sex. Men sometimes need to be reminded of what you like and they love to have the power to turn you on.
Spice it up when sexy lingerie and seduce him.
To keep foreplay interesting takes some effort from both of you. Discuss on how you can try something different.
Good luck
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (15 December 2006):
 Dear Anon,
Sometimes guys go off this type of thing because things down there are not the same as they used to be, maybe too hairy or a little overpowering fragrance. My suugesstion is that you wash each other during foreplay and have a good shave and ask him to rub some nice water based flavored lube on you before you start. A good book for him to read is "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner.
Are you as intimate as you used to be? Is he still in love with you? Have a real heart to heart and see what he says.
Personaly I think going down on the person you love and giving them the ultimate orgasm is a huge turn on even if it takes 45 minutes.
Hope it comes right! Cheers Dagwood
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): so sorry to hear this,my advice is find someone else whom wants you in every way sexualy,your current bf no longer wants you thats why he wont go down its to intimate and he no longer feels comfortable doing this.
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