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writes:hi I have mate a guy abck in sept on a dating site and we have been going on dates ever since we got eacher christmas presents. I have tried to talk to him about were we are going and commitent but he wont talk about it just say I should be happy to be young free and sinlge but told him that not what I want but he still wont talk about it. he ask to see me on my days off if he is not busy work and tells me to keep in touch with him butg he never reply to my text but does talk online and we are still on the dating site what do you think I should do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe says he is not seeing anyone else, he is too busy for that with work, and he told me he has had 2 long term partners for about 10 years and could have gotten married, but didn't want to say anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe say he is not seeing anyone else he is to busy for that with work and he told me he has had 2 long trem partner for about 10 year and could of got maried but dint wont say any more
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): It sounds like he's keeping his distance, but still wanting you to be around "just in case"...maybe he's dating other people and trying to make up his mind who he wants to be in a relationship with and waiting to see what happens. Or maybe he's not seeing anyone else and is really just not wanting a serious relationship right now with all the drama that could happen.why doesn't he want to even talk about it? If he doesn't want a real relationship why can't he just say so? I get the feeling he wants you around as a back up plan. He knows that if he came right out and said he doesn't want a real relationship with you, you'd run away, and he doesn't want that. Yet he doesn't want to get closer now either. something tells me he's keeping you around while he bides his time waiting for something else.I think you should pretty much assume that he doesn't want what you want, or if he does, the time frames don't match up so you should not pin hopes on him.
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