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writes:I met the greatest guy in my life 6 months ago, and we moved in together for 3 out of the 6 months. We're both in Medical school, Im in my 2nd year, hes in his 4th year. I knew in Feb he was moving back home which is 6 hours by car from where I currently live.IT is a good time for me to be alone as I have the most important medical board exam of my life coming up in 4month, but the problem is I fell into a deep depression. I have trouble sleeping, eating, I haven't left my house in a week, and I haven't returned any of my friends phone calls.My bf said he would visit every 3-4weeks for a few days, but I just find it hard to live day to day without him around. HELP:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2011): You are grieving a loss, I am going through the same thing and it is very painful to be seperated from someone you love. The best you can do at this point is focus on your med exam and try to get out and keep busy, I know, easier said than done. But you have to force yourself out, its not healthy to live in sadness and the worst thing you can do is isolate yourself. Know that although he is leaving he loves you and whenever you feel alone call him, call a friend, possibly join a support group, to be around people who can identify with you is helpful. Prayer is also powerful, try telling god all ut our problems, lay your burdens down at his feet and he will take care of you. Maybe in the end your man would consider coming back or you can move to where he is. Real love is hard to come by, and its worth it to go after the one you love. Home is where the heart is.
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