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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:he i sspending all his time with me. we are talking for hours daily. we are attracted on each other but we are not in a love relationship because he ia having the one already. he is seeing her maybe twice a month or less and he is never talking about her. he knows I do not want be a part of parallel relationship. but somehow we are in it even we are not having sex...as we are addicted somehow to the time we are sharing, no matter we are talking on the phone, or chat, or spending it on a coffee. he initiate all happenings were we can spent the time together, alone or with friends. we are sharing the same thoughts about so many things, we can talk about anything for hours... I am very attractive, so is he, we are both very morale persons with high standards and high feeling for ethics. he is helping others whenever he can, so do I.. that is the one of the things we are sharing as same... Things between us are like we have found our soulmate in each other. Things are like that for more than a half year, but... something is missing. I cannot answer the question why we are not in real relationship, why he is still in the relationship he qualified ones as a not quite good. He do not talk about her, only thing what ha had told about is that it is not quite good relationship and that he hopes I will have enough nerves to wait until he solves his chaos... it was told once, two months ago...and he is still there, and he still spents all his time with me. I do not understand, because he do not have motive to get me in bed or make me his mistress...he pays attention on my feelings, he helps me a lot, we have a great time everytime we are together, talking and laughing for hours... what is all about, I do not understand. Last what he told me that he will tell me what is all about. I just replied that he do not have to (why I had told him so: I decided for mayself to have him as a friend and to find love somwhere else, as I am somehow tired of all questions in my head), but he replied that he will tell me everything soon. What should I do? Sometimes I think that everything is worth it, things like those between us are rare (I am not looking through pink glasses), but sometimes I am just tired of the questions in my head, because I think that all such things has to be simple - something is valuable or not. There are no space for calculating or whatever. What do you think?
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