A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a super bad luck with guys. I'm 31 yrs old, never had an official boyfriend, and the guys I've liked they never feel the same way back, just the losers type which some have become even pathetic stalkers.Now, it's worst b/c I fall in love for a guy that's married and I'm suffering for that. He's long distance living happy while I'm here all miserable. He doesn't know I'm suffering and although I know I shouldn't be feeling this way, the fact is I do. We are friends and that's as far as it will go. I cry all nights for him. I know he cares about me and he seems to have feelings but we are friends. To make things worst there's this guy I met who I thought would take him out of my head and it turns out to be a cold hearted player and it rips my heart out. I feel like I will never found some one with whom I can be happy. What is wrong with me?
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (2 December 2008):
 Hi,
You will find someone who makes you happy you have to free yourself from these particular men married and otherwise because for starters a married man usually comes with baggage and you would be breaking up kids from their father if he has any and also you need to take into consideration his wife here who probably is oblivious to all of this so unfair to her really.
You need to be doing other stuff with your time i would ask you join some clubs in your area going by your age there is more for that age group i.e. keep fit, dancing, arts and crafts etc; whatever it is your into hobby wise go join a club most clubs are mixed now unless they state men/women only, meet new people and normally these clubs have social nights too where you can meet people i have a friend who met and married her current partner at a diet club!!
Strange as it seemed it was meant to be we tell her so join some clubs you never know what is waiting in the wings for you but try and stay away from ones that are already taken it is not fair to his wife and kids i hope you found this of some help take care.
Ginalolabridga
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