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writes:i have been with my boyfriend for a wile now. Things seemed to be going well for a wile until a couple weeks ago. He stopped expressing that he loved me. He waits until i say and replys with a mumbled 'i love you too'. If i don't say it he doesn't either. I asked him about it and he said hes had a lot on his mind lately. I tried to ask what about but he shut up out. He won't be open with me at all and its beginning to worry me. I feel like he doesn't trust me or doesn't want to try to trust me. I feel like he doesn't care anymore. Is it wrong that I'm worried? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all. I was getting worried because he was shutting me out and i don't feel like im in a real relatioship anymore. I'm gonna talk to him tomorrow so hopefully i an find out why he is acting like this cause hes never been like this before.
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (2 December 2008):
 Hi,
You need to delve more and find out what it is that is worrying him maybe it is school work?
Many things can cause people to clam up when they are stressed so you need to go talk with him and tell him your worried now because his behaviour is causing you to have alarm bells in your head it is up to him then to stop those bells ringing!!
Come right out and ask him is it something he is genuinely worried about or is it Me?
He has to be a bit more open with you than he has been he cannot keep behaving like this and expect you to take it so talk with him again this time don't accept i have a lot on my mind delve to find out what it is that's on his mind!
Hope this helped you.
Ginalolabridga
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reader, LUgirl +, writes (2 December 2008):
You should brace yourself for a breakup. A guy around that age doesn't know what he wants. When I guy starts to become distant like that, he is trying to prepare you for the worst.
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reader, pomgirl10 +, writes (2 December 2008):
 no but he may have things on his mind ( other girl) so just hope for the best and prepare for the worst. but you have every right to worry your a girl we tend to do that.
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