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writes:Been a year since my ex fiance broke it off. We been together 14 years and we also have 4 year old son. I don't know anymore. She just don't talk to me or anything. Like she done forgot about me. She say she on. Why she not giving us a chance to at least talk?
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (27 June 2011):
 You got together when you were kids, if you were together for 14 years and you are now between 26 and 29. Maybe she grew up and discovered she wanted a different life than the one she was having with you in it.
I agree with Red Athena, she doesnt have to talk to you, but it is up to you to build a relationship with your child and to be part of his life, if you are serious about it of course. If you do decide to be more involved you need to be aware it is a lifelong committment, for example if you say you will be there every second weekend you need to be there, when and where as arranged, as regular as clockwork!
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (27 June 2011):
 She does not have to talk to you if she does not want to.
However, if you have a son together and want a relationship with him, seek out a lawyer and assert your parental rights to visitation. If you want to know him, that is YOUR responsibility.
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