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30-35,
*Raa
writes:I really don't know what to do :'(my boyfriend barely ever talks to me, in school he barely ever comes up to me, hes always with other girls. He comments on other girls facebook pictures saying 'every aspect of this photo is beautiful and perfect', he is making me feel really bad on myself but i'm in love with him.someone please help me?:'(
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reader, gRaa +, writes (18 June 2011):
gRaa is verified as being by the original poster of the question wow, thank you for everything!
He actually broke up with me because of a rumour, so now I know he wasnt as good and as perfect as I thought he was.
Thanks for all of your answers, they really helped me:-)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 May 2011):
I always know when a relationship is at an end, because the person's final comment is "but I love him".
That's a sure sign that you're making excuses for his poor behaviour, and that you're allowing yourself to be treated badly. In fact, I'm betting your relationship is far worse that you're writing here, and perhaps far worse that you're admitting to yourself.
Love alone simply isn't a good enough reason to stay with someone. There has to be trust, respect, care, attention, communication and loads of other things before it can really work. What makes this worse is that your love is one sided. He doesn't really love you at all.
You need to leave him. He clearly has no interest in you at all, and I'm sure there's more to this story that you're not telling. You shouldn't allow yourself to be mocked this way, because you'll never get away from people that will hurt you, and this will become your life.
Make a break from him and find someone who'll actually love you.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 He doesn't seem to be showing you much respect or attention. It may be time to leave and find someone who actually cares about you. You may love him, but do you really want to be with someone who doesn't love you back?
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reader, ArtsyGirl +, writes (8 May 2011):
If he is acting like this I would dump him. Does he think the relationship is open or casual? Do you talk out of school? Does he at all pay attention to you? You make it sound like he doesn't, which means he doesn't love you. I would break it off. Find someone who will compliment you and you can have fun with. Good luck!
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