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writes:Hi, I would really like some help as I feel im goung crazy, basicly I have been with my partner for 3 years now and just the other day I found a website in his history called porncheckorg.con this instantly made me feel sick as I didnt think he would do anything like this the website then led on to having secret sex with random woman. I dobt no what to do as I am in the wrong for looking on his phone but I cant let this go, am I not good enough? Or is it all s miss understanding? Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2015): Sorry I just really want some advice on how to approach the situation.without him getting angry about it all I just donr no what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2015): Thanks again for the reply, I have noticed things like this befire and at the begining of our relationship but he would deniy it. I judt lioked on his yourybe history and seen at some point hes been looking at girls in bikinis doung sexy dances etc. I no I probaly soumd ridiculous byt I thought are relation ship was seriouse & it hurts as I would never do anythimg thati feel would hurt him. I just dont no what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2015): Hi just responding to the answer below as I wrote this question,thankyou for the response, I dont think he is cheating but it ferls likr he hss the intention to if the website direcrected it to having sex with woman in your area so im just really
confused. Hes not easy to talk to and he will go mad when he finds out iv been looking on his phobe but I feel like I cant let it lie.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack  +, writes (2 January 2015):
Do you think he is cheating or just watching porn? If the former, you should press to find out the truth. If he is just viewing porn occasionally then it is no big deal and isn't a reflection on his feelings for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2015): Have you seen links like this before or just this one time? It doesn't look good, however ppl CAN click on spam by accident and some sites even open windows without your consent. That site is now in my browser history as well because I looked at it for this question. If a family member noticed, they'd probably jump to the wrong conclusion, no?
So what you found doesn't necessarily mean anything serious yet. But if you find a pattern emerging, then it becomes cause for concern. As a guy, I think the concept of meeting strangers for one-night-stands is gross and dangerous. Probably many users only look at hookup sites out of curiosity. But if he's using it for the intended purpose, that's different from porn and you need to end it.
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