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Why is it taking me so long to orgasm? And how can I make sex go from feeling good to feeling great?

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Question - (27 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

What do you think about when u orgasm? lately its taking longer than usual, the things that turn me on, really arent anymore...i feel like i need to concentrate on an image of something really sexy in order to orgasm along with getting oral done. Before, even a simple moan would make me orgasm. Is it cuz im not relaxed and in the moment? is it cuz im stressed? is it cuz im about to get my period in a week? i did orgasm twice with my partner last night, just like i always do, but it took forever both times...i hated that. What's going on? Also, I just had sex for the first time, and it felt good (hurt a little but felt good) ladies, how do u make it feel great????? any of you orgasm from sex? how does a vibrator feel?

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A male reader, yankit United States +, writes (27 April 2010):

THe most powerful sex organ in your body is your brain...use it to visualize,fantasy is great too....a no-brainer is to use mirrors. watching yourself and your lover have sex is incredible amunition to get to the big O another thing to consider is the start/stop method of withholding orgasm at the last minute.withdraw and start from scratch...it'll blow you away. There are tons of other hints but experimentation will pay off. switch from one position to another while in the middle of a session. Read tantric sex materials fo a zillion methods to accentuate the positive..keep on trying. You will never regret to payoffs. do it while you are young...it goes away soon enough. "F" your brains out while you can your memories are all that's left you.

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A male reader, yankit United States +, writes (27 April 2010):

THe most powerful sex organ in your body is your brain...use it to visualize,fantasy is great too....a no-brainer is to use mirrors. watching yourself and your lover have sex is incredible amunition to get to the big bang.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (27 April 2010):

Honeypie agony aunt1 word...

FOREPLAY! You might require a longer warm up then you used too. Also trying new positions might be a good idea.

And YES! find your g-spot and teach/show your man to get at it.

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