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*ifeguardbabe11
writes:I've liked this guy for while now. We're both in high school, about the same age. He's such a hilarious guy, his sense of humor is amazing, and intelligent. He's a bit of a dork, but I find it adorable, it's probably my favorite thing about him. He's attractive, not extremely handsome, but I'm certainly attracted to him. But he's so hard to figure out! It's difficult to flirt with him. And here's what I mean: we talk a little, mainly about nothing, he smiles at me, and I smile at him all the time, he laughs at my jokes, and we stand next to each other alot. I catch him looking at me, but I can never tell if he's interested. He's not particularly shy, but he is somewhat of an inrovert you could say. He holds is cards extremely close. He's never had a girlfriend, not that I would know of though. And if he did he was very secretive about it. But it's like he doesn't have any romantic feelings toward anyone. Does that make sense? I'm not saying he HAS to "like" someone. It's just getting frusterating because unlike with other guys, it's a little harder for me to turn the flirt on when we talk. I just get so I don't know, weird around him.He's so darn hard to figure out.I guess I just don't know him well enough?So anyway, how can I show him I'm interested? Has anyone else experienced this before? I am in dire need of some advice.
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reader, lifeguardbabe11 +, writes (20 May 2011):
lifeguardbabe11 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys. I agree, I think my problem is that I always wait for the guy to take the initiative, and then I miss my opportunity. I think I'll go for it!
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (10 May 2011):
 well, go for it. it can't hurt to try?
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reader, XPandoraX  +, writes (9 May 2011):
Highschool guys are all the same, they wanna act cool! Guys rarely show there emotions, especially to a girl they like, so you need to show him how you feel. Little signs can tell you what you need to know before you go for it. It sound to me like he does like you and he is just waiting for you to make a move. i say, go for it, just tell him you like him :-)
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