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writes:My boyfriend stays in london, sometimes we have misunderstanding but recently we settled every bit of the misunderstanding. But before he came back to nigeria he posted on him wall that he is in luv wit another woman which he mentioned her name, when confronted n threatened leaving he begged me to stay that it means nothing. He also asked me to stay away from every other relationships n wait for him. Where i make mistake to sleep wit another man we talk about it if am confronted n he lets go. He visited me when he arrived nigeria n this girl he posted on his wall called him severally while we were making luv, when we where thru he called her back n she told him fuck u. N he called back again severally before she could pick. They argue alot n he begged n denied where he was. When she hanged up he called for so many time thru d night but she didn't picked. In the morning i called him to talk to him but he said he has not waken yet, but soon as i turned my back he started calling her again n stil didn't talk to me. On going outside n coming back he started playing wit me n i told him he seems she had pick ur call now. Right now he has picked on necessary offence wit me n when i called he told me he's wit her in our state. Should i continue waiting for him or should i just back off n leave him? He told me to wait so he could sort out things gradually. But how long. He doesn't want me fuck another but he is fucking. He is not even committed to my family so i could know he's actually mine. What should i do? I am a very emotional person, already i am worn out in worries n devastated. Can't even concentrate on my studies and i love him very much that am afraid i can't let go in as much as i am trying. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (24 May 2011):
No, there's nothing that is going to change anything that has already happened. He will say and do anything to try and keep you in his life. Be strong, trust your gut-feeling and do what you know what is right (but what may be difficult)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u dearcupid readers. But i want to tell u that he called me today just to say dt he was just tempting me to see what i'll do, he denied being wit the girl. I don't believe, is there any reasons why i should?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2011): Leave him and never talk to him again cut off all contact with him and find some one better.
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (23 May 2011):
This guy is treating you so badly! He is not showing that he cares about you. Why would you want to accept that kind of behaviour from someone? You are being used and disrespected. You should stop seeing this man, and concentrate on your studies. You may love him, but he does not love you. The longer you stay in this situation, the worst it's going to get for you. Move on.. your life will be so much better for it.
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