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female
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41-50,
*hatsTheDeal
writes:The first time my ex and I broke up, I called, text, emailed him regularly with no responses! By the time I had finally just gave up, he showed up at my house apologizing and telling me he missed me and still loves me. We get back together for about a month and then we break up again!!! Might I remind you that these breakups are over communication problems. He doesn't open up to me, talk about problems, we just break up and he just ignores me all over again. Only thins time around I called him once and left like 2 texts. Didn't hear anything back so I have quit trying. I still love him and don't know why!! Things were so great in the beginning, but his lack of communication sux! He won't tell me anything!! No answers to any of my questions!! Why is he like this?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (31 August 2010):
 I will say guys don't express themselves very well when it comes to feelings and problems are often cast aside. Communication is key in all relationships without it your relationship will fail. Now, unless he is serving our country in Afghanistan(you're too busy being shot at to get to a phone) then there is no excuse for his lack of communication. Plus, any person who runs away from their problems isn't cut out to be in a relationship. If it didn't work the first 2 times the third time is definitely not a charm.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 August 2010):
How many more times will you take this guy back, only for him to fail again. He just doesn't seem to be able to grasp the idea of a relationship. Instead, every time you have a problem, he just runs away and says nothing. At some point, preferably now, you've got to end it. You really do. All you're doing is breaking up, then he comes back and then he can't take it and runs away again. There is no future here. No kids, no marriage, no anything. He will just continually run away. Stop wasting your life on someone who physically can't commit to a relationship.
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