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Why is he ignoring me after declaring his love?

Q.   well here goes, i'v had a on and off relationship with my ex but always felt it was more one way, i'v always had a soft spot for him and i'v ended every relationship i'v had in the past two years for him, then i finally had enough and told him i had ...

A.   3 July 2010: Thanks for the advice, i know wat i have to do. I'm just gonna leave it. For two years i'v waited on him, to realise. But now i'v realised i'm better off without him. I dont need that in my life. I'm better than that. Thanks x... (read in full...)

Why is he ignoring me after declaring his love?

Q.   well here goes, i'v had a on and off relationship with my ex but always felt it was more one way, i'v always had a soft spot for him and i'v ended every relationship i'v had in the past two years for him, then i finally had enough and told him i had ...

A.   2 July 2010: Well i tryed, but he didnt text back i even offered to forget it happend and go back to friends. But he didn't reply. I would give my right arm to know wat he was thinking. Does it sound as if he cares or after all this time he just used me?... (read in full...)

Husband won't stop chatting with another woman.

Q.   This was my question in April 2009 My husband has a job that is very boring and he is allowed to chat on his cell phone. A month ago he complained that I don't talk to him enough so he has to talk to "Rebecca". At the time, a month ago, we es...

A.   2 July 2010: Tell him to stop or your leaving him! If u still love him let him know it hurts you! And see what he says then do whatyou feel is right!... (read in full...)

I was upset and got mean to my ex, how do I make up for it?

Q.   i had a really bad day on sunday with my exboyfriend we we kinda talking to each other and that but i rang him up to talk to him face to face about our relationship and he said i not at home so pretty much get lost i was angry then because during ...

A.   2 July 2010: To be honest, you kinda have screwed things up bad. He is now gonna be scared incase you cry rape. You steaped pritty low on this one. Unless you were in a bad mood for one hell of a good reason, i donno if he will speak to you again, if it was a ... (read in full...)

Why is he ignoring me after declaring his love?

Q.   well here goes, i'v had a on and off relationship with my ex but always felt it was more one way, i'v always had a soft spot for him and i'v ended every relationship i'v had in the past two years for him, then i finally had enough and told him i had ...

A.   2 July 2010: Yeah buti cant get a hold of him. I'm starting to think he was just trying to get sex out of me, but to be fair, we've had sex alot over the last couple year without such a show down. I'v currently stopped trying to get a hold of him n hoping he ... (read in full...)

She's in eighth grade and I'm going to be a senior, should I date her?

Q.   im am 17 and going to be a senior next year, i feel like a creep but there is an eighth that is 14 that i really like and i think she likes me..what should i do date her, tell her to leave me alone or what? ...

A.   1 July 2010: why dont you try becoming her friend and see how that goes and wen she is old enough try then, good things come to those who wait x... (read in full...)

He doesn't know I exist, how can I get his attention?

Q.   I like this boy I saw on facebook (: like... really bad. He goes to a school near mine. He's in the year above me.- And the same race. We have 25 mutual friends, and hes close to my cousin and her friends. But I cant ask her for help. My friend...

A.   1 July 2010: go through facebook, and speak to him on chat a wee hi here and there, get to know him, see how thats goes, you never know! Good luck!... (read in full...)

Still a virgin at 19. Should I just lose it or wait for that "special one"?

Q.   Im 19 and still a virgin. This is really getting to me in a really bad way now. I dont really know what it is thats making me worry, i just keep thinking one morning i'll wake up and find that im like 40 years old and still in the same situation. Im ...

A.   1 July 2010: Right, i was 16 wen i had sex for the first time, i had it with a guy i was ttly into. Thought he was special, turned out i was wrong lol! Massive player! I regreted it ever since, about 3 months later i meet a guy that i spent 3 years with. Im now ... (read in full...)

Girl thing gone bad? But why? Where do I go?

Q.   I've been going out with my, as of last week, ex girlfriend for about 3 years now. She broke it off. I've been in bad relationships and understand most problems. I'm a very nice guy...and everyone says too nice...bringing her flowers just casue its ...

A.   1 July 2010: To be fair this girl sounds like she has commitment fears, or she is maybe using you! Is there another guy you know about? To be honest i'm currently going through a similer situation. And my advice to you is ignore this girl and see if she comes ... (read in full...)

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