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writes:OkSo I've been friends with this guy for about 4 years. He has liked me on and off during the years but I always saw him as a friend. He told my best friend( also his good friend) that he liked me but after a while said he was giving up on me. He never tried to ask me out or anything. Recently he has gotten more touchy. And he pays when we go out. So naturally i fell for him after a while because he's a good guy and I have fun with him. When I was with him the other night he told me he has been contemplating something a lot lately. He said, "I should I listen to my gut? I want the answer to be yes but what if it's no. And there's always a fear that I'm going to be wrong."This is all he said. Extremely vague so I wasn't sure what he was talking about.Is it possible that he trying to ask me out now but is afraid of me saying no?But lately he has been distant, which sucks because I like him now but he doesn't know. Thoughts??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2012): Tell him you like him. It really doesn't sound like you have much to lose by being the brave one and telling him right out. Even if he says no you will not have to be constantly worrying about his feelings for you.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (10 June 2012):
 Why didn't you ask him at the time, what he was talking about? It does sound as though he has feelings for you, but then when you didn't respond to what he was fishing about, he felt awkward and embarrassed. If you like him, tell him so now, and don't waste anymore time. Life is too short.
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