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26-29,
anonymous
writes:my ex is really confusing me, he told me to get over him and move on, so i started to move on.. and there's this boy i like and he likes me.. my ex saw us flirting and had a go at me calling me a..slag and telling the boy to back off, but he was the one who dumped me! then he says he still has feelings for me, then he say he doesnt and snogs my bestfriend, then he does again? pleas help me im so confused and hurt , thankyou xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): I wouldn't worry too much about it, maybe if you want to clear the air you should ask him outright what's going on.
Do you still have feelings for your ex? If you don't then just ignore him, if he gets worse then tell someone or report him or something if it gets really bad.
A similiar thing happened to me but not quite as confusing as this, sorry if my help sucked =D
Good luck
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reader, tenfold  +, writes (1 June 2009):
Anastasia is correct. Remember, who you like, who you dont, who you wanna be with is all up to you. Your life is in your hand. Dont let others to control it.
Best of luck.
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reader, Who  +, writes (1 June 2009):
 “Why is he acting immaturely?”
He is a teen age boy and is by definition immature. The quicker you can get used to this the better, because for a lot of boys this lasts well into their 20s. It is going to be hard on you and you girl friends for a while but I didn’t come up with this system. You all are just going to have to muddle through with what you have got until the boys decide to grow up.
(Oh and don’t make the mistake of thinking dating older guys is the answer. Older guy who date teen age girls are 1) still immature and 2) have learned to exploit inexperienced girls.)
Best of luck and hope this helps.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (1 June 2009):
 Pumpkin, Your ex is a bit selfish. He does not want you but does not want anyone else to have you. Which is not fair to you.You don't deserve this hon....cut him loose, cut your best friend loose, get some new mates and carry on with life. He has hurt you too many times and he does not deserve any more chances to do it again...this isn't a raffle. This is your sweet heart you are dealing with. Move on.Take careAna
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