A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, two years ago I met a really nice guy and we went out on a few dates. I ended things before they got serious because I was still in love with my ex boyfriend and was finding it hard to move on. This guy was really upset, but we stayed in touch and texted each other every 6 months or so to say hi. Then last week, out of the blue, he called to ask if I would go out with him for his birthday, which was on Thursday. I expected there to be a group of people meeting up, but when he picked me up there was just the two of us. We went out and had a geat time, we spent the evening laughing and joking, and I realised that I really like him. At the end of the night, he declined to come into my house, but said he'd had a great evening and could we do it again. I said yes, that I would love to see him again and that I'd had a wonderful night and was sorry for everything that had gone on before, and he then told me I was beautiful, pecked me on the cheek and went home. The thing is, this was on Thursday and I haven't heard from him since! He hasn't called me at all. I sent him a text saying hi, but he hasn't responded and I don't want to push it in case he isn't interested. I tried calling his phone but it has been switched off all weekend so now I've deleted him number so I don't keep trying and driving myself mad! Can anyone be honest with me out there - if he hasn't called all weekend, this is a blow out, right? How long is normal to wait? Thanks so much for reading x
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): I am in kind of the same boat.
I work for a car dealership and
two nice young men came in looking
to buy a car, i sold them on a really
nice sporty fun car, and when his buddy
was in financing, and handing the car money
process his friend asked me for my number, and
i thought okay, sure...this could be fun so i gave
it to him. We went out to Dinner and watched a movie at
his place, that was friday and its monday now
i am starting to wonder if he is just busy,
or uninterested. He kissed me and asked
if we could do it again. i'd love to
but i am worried now with no text
and no call. Good luck, hun if
your figure it out, let me
in on your secret. :)
take care.
A
male
reader, guillaume  + ♥, writes (9 June 2008):
 Hi,
No, it's not necessarily a blow out. He has managed to get things moving with you after 2 years and may not want to rush things like before. He was a perfect gent in my eyes as he declined any coffee etc after the date and left with you wanting more of this respectful guy.
Give it a week or so, don't contact him and try not to analyse any turned off phones or unanswered texts etc. He could be really happy that things went well and doesn't want to spoil things by being too pushy. i believe he will contact within the week. best wishes, G.
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