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writes:Hi,I've been in a long distance relationship with this guy for 3 months now. In the beginning he was so sweet, texting me all the time, telling me " I love you so much, ur the the one I miss u so much .. I waiting on u here no matter how long it takes" .. Everyday he would tell me this stuff, he cared about me and use to get upset if I was upset.Now for the past 3 weeks he doesn't call me any more only a few texts here and there like friend type texts. So I confronted him and said " do u not love me anymore and why are u acting different".. He would get annoyed and say " I'm waiting on u and yeah I love u, stop asking this" but then everyday he acts as though he doesn't want me.. He use to text me late into the night .. Now it's at like 9pm " I'm tired n going to sleep night"I text him tonight going " do u miss me?" .. He goes " night" .. I said " I take that as a no then, night" .. He said " it's not a no, obviously it's not a no" ... I put " it's cool, sleep well" .. He didn't reply...Why doesn't he care that I feel like this? Why is he acting like this ? I even gave him the option to be mates and he was like " stop saying this " .. What should I do? Why had he changed? I'd appreciate any advice but if he doesn't feel the same anymore why is it Everytime I try breaking up with him he says no and that he'd be daft to let mr go... I asked if there's another girl and that it's ok if there was, I just wanted honesty and he said there isn't any girl :-s I'm confused.
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reader, MrShinra  +, writes (6 November 2012):
This is why I hate long distance relationships. I had one several months ago and lasted just as long as yours. What makes ldr's difficult is that you're relying solely on text's/phone calls to develop intimacy. That's fine if you're planning on meeting someone after a couple weeks, but months? It's torture.
Bottom line, and I know you don't want to hear this, but you both should end it. He's lost interest. It's not your fault. I'm sure you've questioned your feelings for him as well. Forget sex. When you can't kiss them, hug them, not even hold their hand, well you get the point. That's why ldr's rarely work.
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