A
female
age
41-50,
*estiny28
writes:Hello ... A Male and Female have feelings for each other. Been going out for 3 months intensly. They break up due to uncertanty and trust issues regarding past events that sent the relationship into turmoil. Text from other females found on his mobile with clear indication it wasn't only friendship etc. Female ends the relationship. 2 weeks pass by with no contact whatsoever to each other until female decided to send an email offering to be friends as she can't see her life without him in it. Male replies quickly to advise he needs time but definately want to be friends as they didn't work out as a couple. Male admits that he thinks and miss her till today. If two souls are longing one way or the other for one another and female want to be with man why doesn't the male want to make it work if male knows the reasons for break up is true and valid and have feelings for female? How can female make male come back? Female is very confused!!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 July 2008):
Hello Female!
He obviously doesn't have feelings that are that strong or he wouldn't have cheated in the first place. He probably cares about you and likes you but feels guilty for hurting you. He probably knows there is a good chance he would hurt you again.
Don't try and get this guy back. He treated you badly and doesn't want to be forgiven and taken back.
Get over him and when you meet a man who truly loves you then you'll realise this was nothing.
Good Luck!! xx
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