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writes:What does it mean when a guy gives you a card then says shhhh...don't say anything to anyone that I gave you this card? (we sorta work somewhat with the same people, but different companies). Does it mean 1) he is embarrassed to let people know that he gave me a card because he is embarrassed to be assoicated with me in any way or 2) that he likes me and is just shy to let anyone know his feelings about me? He mentioned he would be teased terribly if they knew he gave me a card. If it were me that gave him a card knowing I really liked him, I gues I might be embarrassed for people at work to know. As a matter of fact, I really do like him and definately go out of my way to deny it when my coworkers tease me about him. Any ideas. Think he likes me too?I guess only if you like someone you would be shy to let anyone know until something was actually gonna happen right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): There's only one reason people are secretive, its because they are trying to hide something. A man who genuinely likes you and respects you wouldn't dare hand you a card and then say "don't tell anybody about this." A. Its stupid and b. Its childish. There is a book called "he's just not that into you" which offers really great insight about men specifically for women who always make excuses for them, such as "he's just shy that's why he hasn't called" or "he did this or that cause he's shy or real busy" etc. If that had been me I would have done one of two things depending on my mood. If I was feeling carefree I would have accepted the card smugly and thrown it in the garbage as soon as he turned his back. And if I was feeling sassy I would have said "oh well then you better keep the card cause I'm no good at keeping secrets!" I think the whole thing was kind of rude and should show you a lot about this guys intentions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): Umm, I'd say he's pretty keen.
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