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Why does work make personal lives so complicated?

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Question - (28 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *iguel-Montana writes:

It seems to me like work bills money all this man made crap kills every relationship out there. i really really dont want to end up like this if i ever get married i dont want to get divorced i dont id hate it. the only thing that comes to mind when i think about it is if we worked this out together (in other words me and my wife). Its so hard to believe that after a while your not going to be drawn the same way towards the person you live with. there has to be some kind of solution to this anything will do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009):

When things get tough you gotta remember the first days of your relationship when you were both shy but curious and how it felt when you realised it was love. Some people worry about money, but you can't take money with you when you die. Life is about having good times and being a good person, sometimes people should remember that.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2009):

So what is your question?

You don't give any details, or even an actual problem.

You seen to be worried that your job and money worries, could cause an imaginary wife to leave you.....

The answer is to work hard and get established and qualified so that you have several ways to make money TOGETHER. She has to pull her weight too.

Also, realise that as long as you have a roof and food, nothing else actually matters. So never get in debt just for stuff.

Good Luck!! xx

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